I'm getting married in two weeks, and we both decided we are going to come up with some rules for ourselves that go into effect starting on our wedding day, and we won't tell each other about these rules unless it becomes absolutely necessary.

I don't know what rules he's making for himself, but my first rule is simple. No matter what, no matter how I feel, and no matter what it is, if he wants me to do something sexual I will say yes. I'm hoping the furthest he wants to go is like, anal or something, but no matter how painful, degrading, or disgusting the thing he might want me to do is, I'm going to say yes.

Now, I coild stop there, but I was wondering if I should impose a few more rules on myself. Comment if you think I should, and if you have any ideas for rules?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 17, 2016 at 5:51 PM

Oops I meant to type two months. It's not that urgent lol.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 17, 2016 at 8:40 PM

I think you need to grow up a bit.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 18, 2016 at 9:20 AM

I like your idea but suggest one change. Tell him.
I am in a similar situation with a boy friend and we both love it. That is. if you really want him to take you to your limit

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 18, 2016 at 1:09 PM

How about no masturbation unless he asks you to? If you're horny you have to have sex with him to get off, and an added bonus is since you'll be horny more often you'll be more into whatever he wants you to do. I know I've done things when I'm horny I'd never want to do otherwise.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 19, 2016 at 7:19 AM

I'm intreagued what painful, disgusting and degrading things you think he may ask you to do. Please share

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 20, 2016 at 2:31 PM

Comments on comments:
for #4 don't go there, no masturbation sounds like a good idea when you are young but you are just going to do damage to your own state of mind as you get older.

As for rule ideas:
#1 TALK EVERYTHING through in advanced and be open minded. For a long healthy well rounded marriage talk about things in advance. Don't just "Do everything he asks no matter how degrading".

Anal is fun overtime the first month or two you do it it's going to kind of suck unless he has a super small cock. After that though it can get pretty darn amazing and you may even find yourself preferring it. Of course communication is key however as usually for the best anal you want some notice to make sure your clean and clear.

#2 It is a bad idea to ever hate for a fantasy, no matter what your first reaction may be. There are many things you can enjoy the fantasy of that you would actually be pretty disgusted with in the real world. So when you are talking fantasy and feral pokemon porn comes up, just roll with. Often fantasies, especially sexual ones is how people work out their darker thoughts and keep their minds balanced. Being able to share your darkest deepest most uncomfortable fantasies with your wife/husband without fear of being judged is a major trust exercise and mile marker if you really wanted a deeply connected relationship.

#3 Not a rule but a strong recommendation: Watch, read, and look at porn together. Treat it as a book club, talk and review things get horny and have a great time together. Make it a common part of your lives.

#3.5 Don't get jealous of porn, porn is about humans (and in many cases non-humans) enjoy each other physically. As a real living person in a relationship you are way more then your physical body. As you get older you will have less interest in physical sex due to many reasons, sharing and having a deep mentally connected fantasy life with your partner however will likely last until death do you part.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 3, 2017 at 11:14 AM

You are going to make a wonderful couple

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