I am confused.

I am 30, I am a supervisor at work and have a team of nine people. One of them is a 25 year old girl from Connecticut. I did not make a pass at her but she volunteered to tell me that she was gay. Personally I didn't care. At a happy hour after work she got on my case because I wasn't a feminist. I could not give a fuck about feminism, I think it is stupid, for women who have a problem with who they are. I told her that. Since she was gay I felt I didn't have a reason to hold back so I told her that for me a woman was for fucking, if she wasn't good for fucking, then there was no reason to have a relationship. I was being honest.

She went ballistic and screamed all kind of shit about women's rights and feminism. I told her to shut up.

Three weeks later she comes to me and says that she was sorry. Now she wants to date, to go out. She wants to be treated right, her words. She said she wasn't opposed to having sex. I reminded her that she told me she was gay, why was she coming on to me. Because she says she is not gay anymore.

I am confused, I didn't know you could turn gay on and off.