I am a married 28 year old woman who as a whole loves her husband...however has several times fantasized about being unfaithful with man or even men 30yrs older. My husband who ive been married to for 4yrs, is although rough looking is actually very vanilla in the bedroom where as I am his polar opposite- a very kinky dirty girl wanting to push boundaries.

This bedroom polar opposite situation as and still does cause tension between the sheets, several times I've asked him to play a little rough, hold me down, call me names and even asked for a bit of consensual spanking and every time it ends up the same way. Me on top riding him like my life depends on it.

Several times I've broached the subject about switching the heat up in the bedroom and each time he gives me the same answer-if it still gets you wet then why change it. I understand change is scary and the unknown is intimidating but what does a girl have to do to get her ass hole fucked when he refuses to even consider it. I love him and he worship s me like a man should there are just times where I want to be treated like a whore then a queen.

Because of his resistance to sex game changes I've had to take it upon my self to get the sexual satisfaction I crave, to go as far as to buy toys and have solitary BD sessions. Addmitidly it has been a fun learning experience and ive been able to push myself past a few limits but I still miss the feel of my husbands cock as it enters me, filling me up completely as I'm bound and gagged with no way to stop it (some days a doldo just doesn't cut it).

Any other man or woman have the same issues? How does someone get passed it to stay satisfied and sane in their marriage without crossing the line.