My wife might be what you'd call a late bloomer sexually; we've been together a long time and I'm her first/only cock and she didn't start cumming regularly until she was nearly 30. She's always been a willing participant, she just couldn't let go enough to cum easily. I bought her very first sex toy and have added some to her collection over the years. She's open minded - we've tried vibrating cock rings, HUGE vibrators for both her clit inside her pussy, every kind of lube you can imagine, blindfolds, handcuffs. I have a hidden folder dedicated to this woman's college nudes. In college I used to wind her up in my dorm room before her classes, take naked pictures of her, and fuck her silly when she got back from classes. Her very first orgasm happened that way on an afternoon I'll never forget with her bouncing on my cock and biting me so hard she left bruises for making her wait like that. We've learned a lot together, and even after 15 years we are still finding new ways to please each other.

The past 4 years we've developed a 99% success rate of making her cum every time we have sex now. It started out with her vibing while she sucked my cock and let me tell you there is NOTHING like having a woman cum and moan and lose her mind while her mouth's full of your cock. NOTHING. We moved on from there to a new game that we play every time these days, where I finger her while she vibes. The first time seemed a little strange, but we got this thing down pat. I've developed a stroking method that has her climbing the walls in under 10 minutes every time. Never fails. Feeling her throbbing orgasm while she pushes her pussy down all over my fingers is incredible, and looking up at her eyes rolling back while she moans and wiggles is delicious. Every time she does it I reward her with kisses and holding while she wraps herself around me as tightly as she can. I firmly believe this positive affirmation is what allowed her to open up and relax. And I get to stare at her gorgeous love channel and feel it in a way you just don't get to do with a cock. Honestly, I completely lose myself in it to the point that I'm not even thinking about my pleasure, just making sure she's happy.

When it's "my turn," I could care less how I get there. Usually she props her ass up on some pillows face down and wiggles at me saying "fuck me fuck me fuck me." Again, having a woman that jazzed up about you is something else. If I can manage it, I usually give her another orgasm in this position and we cum together, another incredible experience. I can tell she's cumming in that position because of the noises she's making alone, they get wild. Even if she doesn't cum again this way, we both leave the bedroom pretty happy. Not bad at all for a couple of inexperienced, horny kids from the country.

It's an interesting role reversal that I'd highly recommend; she fucked me for years without getting there, least I can do now is give her all I got. My only recommendation if you want to try this is 1) communication, 2) patience, and 3) experiment with different kinds of toys. It took years for her to find the right toy, a simple basic adjustable vibrator with the right texture, and the right speed, position, time of day, etc. Enjoy one another and like she always says if things don't go 100% to plan, we can try again tomorrow!