I need some advice here about my 24 year old male cousin "Ron". He met this girl "Becky" last year at a party. Becky and Ron hit it off, becky claimed to be 18 at the time. I am married with kids of my own, I met Becky a couple times via Ron, even my Aunt, Ron's mom gets along perfect with Becky who came over a lot. Early this year my husband and I went out to dinner with Ron and Becky to celebrate Becky's "19" Birthday. Becky honestly looks even older than 19, she is also 5'8 fully developed and socially mature. Ron was crazy over her, she even introduced him to some friends and female cousins of hers which she said is her roommates, but really one who was never home was her guardian. Becky hanged out with a lot of older friends that attended our community college and she also played it off as if she was attending there too.

Ron and Becky dated for about ten months total when a few months ago, a teacher at Becky's school (high school) found out about her relationship with an older guy and turned them in. Come to find out Becky is really 16 and started dated Ron when she was 15. Long story short, Ron got in some serious trouble, even explaining to the judge he still has to attend some kind of court ordered "offenders counseling group". He has since lost his job and has become very distant with his families.

I am particularly upset and I don't blame Ron about this because I was fooled by this girl also. My husband, my Aunt, and Ron's friends are in total up raw. Not because he is my cousin, but this is wrong, there were no signs. How dare this girl play games. Girls like Becky make it really harder for other girls that are real victims of older men seductions. This is not fair.
Sorry for the long post.