you need to get out of there and wash your hands of that mess before something happens to you. your mom is enabling your sister and her boyfriend to do what they do and your dad is allowing it also out of fear for the child, the child is gonna suffer with them or without them, with them because he is already cursing and eventually will pick up even more bad habits from his so called parents, without them because he will feel abandoned and insecure, really what choice is there. you can try intervention it is a show on tv that deals with addiction and families who deal with addicts. you could talk to your parents and tell them that your sister and her boyfriend are a disruption and a threat to the normalcy of your home and they need to call someone so they can find a way to obtain guardianship over the child and get a restraining order on your sister and her boyfriend and if they refuse,tell them that its not fair to you or your mom and dad to have 2 addicts disrupting the safe haven called home and you are going to leave for your own safety and sanity and they can live with that disfunctional setting but dont ask them to expect you to.
I am an adult that does not live there or does my other siblings. It is just my parents, nephew and his crazy parents. I am washing my hands of this b/c it just is too much to handle anymore. Too many nights of tears, hearthache and worry. Just be sure of this.... my nephew will pay the ultimate price for his unstable home life. This should be a crime punishable by removing each of their fingernails very slowly. I wish I could raise him. He really is a beautiful blond hair blue eyed little boy who hums his little show tunes while they fight. He is so used to the fighting that it dosen't even faze him when chaos erupts. So very sad. All I can do is pray and stay the hell out of there. I just hope my nephew doesn't hate me someday for not saving him. I seriously am crying for him right now. My POOR BEAUTIFUL NEPHEW....A GIFT FROM GOD THAT THEY COULD CARE LESS ABOUT. They never take him anywhere or stimulate his progress. Please everyone pray for my nephew. It breaks my heart.....truly it does :( :(
Thanks for your encouragement and kind words. It is much appreciated. The rest of my family are educated, fine hard working people who love and respect the Lord. Why does she do this???
I would go talk to a lawyer or police officer and tell them everything you just wrote and how you think your sister and he b/f will lie about things if you call the cops look at your options and do some research you can find a way to do something plus the dad of your nephew could never get him he is a lazy piece of shit that doesn't have a job how could he support him especially if your sister goes to jail the only people that could would be your parents and the state would side with them if they knew every detail about this.