My dad died 10 years ago and my mom had been married and divorced 2x since then. Now she wants to marry "Arnie", her 24 year old gay next-door neighbor.

She says she knows Arnie is gay (how could she not when he lived with another guy for the last 5 years and had loud gay parties every weekend!) but that they love each other and want to be together forever.

I asked her if she and Arnie have sex. She said not yet that they didn't need it right now. She said that in the future, they might. Meanwhile, they are happy with kissing, hlding hands, and snuggling naked.

I'm horrified! I can't believe that she is foolish enough to believe that Arnie is in love with a 55 year old overweight woman. He must want her money.