Have you talked to him? Tell him what you want/need. He can't read your mind. Let us know how it goes.
My wife and I do this on occasion. Passion is good but every now and then I have to dominate her. Talk to him and tell him what you want. I thought my wife was a powder puff for years till she said those magic words in bed, Hurt me babe!
Wish you were my wife. Just like your husband my wife only wants the basics as well. Just once I wish she would say to me she wanted it rough.
Plain old sex gets boring fast. There is a whole wide world of sex adventure out there to stimulate your sex life. My first wife was so sweet and plain vanilla. That got me cheating and seeing mistresses and of course got caught and we were divorce. Duringn the next 6 years as a single guy I experimented and enjoyed a fantastic and wide ranging sex life.
B&D, S/m, bi sex, sex with Tranny's, servicing black men etc. I would put myself in a position to be kidnapped and r**ed. Once I was kept for over a week and had to call in sick.
I am not suggesting everyone go to this extreme but I do want you to consider thinking outside the box where sex is concerned.
At this moment while my wife is at work, I am sitting in my chair with the laptop on my lap.
My cock and balls are tied in rope and I am enjoying some kinky porn. No, I will notg allow myself to cum. No, I need to keep myself really horny as long as possible. Sometimes I go for weeks without release. The feeling is fantastic. Taking my self to the brink and stopping. Amazing feeling.
