I am oficially a failure at lesbian sex. Dont get me wrong, my fingers seem to be in high demand, with my mouth coming in at a close second. But for the life of me I cant get the strap-on to work. I get on my knees in front of her, but in order to get in I have to spread my legs wider, and then they just keep slipping until I am practically doing the splits. When I try to thrust the dildo barely moves, or it slips out. I cant get the hip motion down because my legs are so far apart..... I usually end up taking the dildo out of the harness and using it on her while sitting between her legs. It sucks for me because I feel incredibly detached when im down there and not on top of her. I have weak wrist so when im using my fingers I need to be sitting between her legs to get the right leverage. So when I have the strap-on I really want to be on top of her, making it work. But I just cant get it right. :(