I am 24 and my step mom asked me to ho with her to meet her family in El Salvador. My mom is Mexican American 2nd generation. I don't speak Spanish.

My mom was the other woman, my dad was cheating on my stepmom. I grew up in both homes. I don't want to go. I mean what am I going to say to people? It is bad enough growing up with an unmarried mom, a married dad and a step mom.

My mom is not estranged from my dad.

This is supposed to be my coming out trip, to both my step mom's and dad's family. After 24 years of living a secret.