I hope someone can help me,

Thirty six years married to my now past husband, I thought my sex life was over. Not having a man in my bed for eight years, I had managed my satisfaction manually.

I met this young man age thirty one with a sexual appetite unlike I have ever experienced. I have used lubricants without success. Though I know its risky I do not demand condoms, they made me dry out no matter the lube. I get sore and unable to take him for several days in a row.

I took some lube samples from my OBGYN and that works so nice. Except with that lube and his ejaculate mixed I get a horrible small down there the next morning. I do not like to douche but unless I wash that out, I wake up smelling fishy.

Any lube suggestions? I had my Dr check me for STD's and things are fine.