I made a decision that I would marry someone that could take care of me. I didn't want to be the one working and raising kids while the father was off fucking another girl.

At work I made a point of being sweet and attentive to this white engineer (I am Hispanic). He is kind of nerdy and he needs to be mommied, sometimes I do get frustrated with him, I am not used to men being so passive. But I got him to marry me and I gave him kids which he is over the moon about. He earns well and we live in a 2200 sq foot house in the suburbs.

He is a big baby about a lot of things, but he has learned to like to play in bed and I make him feel like he is King Kong.

I am far away from my neighborhood and far better off than any of my friends from high school. My kids are growing up in an all white school, they have an Anglo last name, and they don't associate at all with who I was as a kid. I don't show them pictures and I don't let the associate where I grew up.