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My husband was recently horribly offended, to the point of shouting at me, because I thought a little sexy idea starter game would be fun and bought it to surprise him. He was offended, and I was surprised. Needless to say the next day I returned the game and the nighty I bought and the sexy outfit I bought with the thigh-high fishnets...and now, I guess I have to accept that we're vanilla. It feels like a lie for me and I'm not really into lying.

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# 35434 - by Anonymous / May 25, 2017
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 25, 2017 at 2:14 PM

Too bad, but your husband seems humorless and unimaginative.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 25, 2017 at 3:12 PM

If it feels like a lie to you, then it is.
You definitely need more and deserve it.

If you cannot even wear a nightie for your husband, he has some serious problems.
You can save him or you can move on.
All depends on him and how he responds to your initiative.

But be yourself, explore, seek out what you like.
Don't wait until it's too late.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 25, 2017 at 6:57 PM

Find someone else to wear it for...

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 25, 2017 at 10:12 PM

Runnnnnnnnnnnn.Now not later!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 26, 2017 at 1:00 AM

Sounds like you need to sit down and do some straight talking with your husband. Something isn't right with him going off the deep end like that. He may have had something nasty happen to him in the past, or maybe he bears some guilt for something he did. My wife is like that somewhat due to abuse she suffered as a child. I have to be especially careful about how we do things to spice things up. What generally works for us is for me to plant an idea in her head so to speak and encourage her to play things out when she picks up on it. Kind of discreetly drop things until she gets the courage to try. Even when we don't spice things and engage in straight sex, some say vanilla sex, I take it nice and slow with her and things generally take off when she gets going all hot and horny. Leads us into many marathon sessions for sure.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 26, 2017 at 2:39 AM

Life is to short to be married to a prude. You deserve someone that share's the same zest for life that you seem to have.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 26, 2017 at 5:22 AM

I wish my conservative wife would surprise me like that.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 26, 2017 at 10:06 AM

Ditto #7 . . . actually, my wife's not so much conservative as she is withdrawn, if that's the right word. She likes sex and will do lots of "spicy" things but she won't wear lingerie and will not initiate sex. There's also very little touching by her, it's all up to me. It's gotten boring . . .

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 26, 2017 at 11:30 AM

#7 to #8 I think maybe you've done a better job of describing my wife than I have. She's very sweet, and will do basic sexual duties, but isn't too adventurous. She likes sex, but won't initiate anything beyond her normal routine. I love her dearly, but she has become boring.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 26, 2017 at 2:21 PM

#8 to #7; My wife will do more than basic (anal, bondage, light BDSM, fisting, etc) but simply will not initiate anything. I'm tired of being the one thinking up everything and initiating all the time . . .

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 26, 2017 at 3:12 PM

All good. Its a two way street. It takes two. He's got to meet you at least half way. Has he always been'vanilla'?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 27, 2017 at 12:56 PM

#7 - #8 Hell your wife is way beyond what mine will do! I can initiate all I want, but that's as far as that goes. She will suck my cock, but that's all she does. I guess I shouldn't complain, but she won't even swallow! But before we met, and for a few years after, she was pretty open for new things, but has since cooled off considerably. She was a wild child in her college days, and for me too at first. She has fucked and sucked a load of guys, but she just has lost interest in getting wild anymore.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 19, 2017 at 1:48 AM

How about you trade your husband in for me and he can have my wife? She goes to church more often than a nun. She only let me fuck her on our honeymoon and once per month after that until I got her pregnant and then not again until three years later, the interval she said she wanted between first and second children and then after she became pregnant she hasn't let me touch her since. She informed me under no uncertain terms that sex only served the purpose of making babies and once our duty was complete there was no need for sex. Then after that lecture she reminded me about how evil porn and masturbation was and that masturbation was equal to cheating and grounds for divorce. I haven't cum in 35 years. I'm just a wallet to her now. I work 60 hours a week and pay all the bills. She stays at home and does housework and then baby sits our grandchildren who probably have a better sex life than I do. Oh and yes we sleep in separate bedrooms and have for years.

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