I have a male friend that I've been close to for three years now. We hang out pretty often in a group of friends, truthfully no romantic interest for one another. But one of my biggest fetishes (of actually practiced ones anyway) is casually slipping him intimate details about me when we're alone. Things like how I never shave my pubic hair so it's a big curly bush, how I prefer facials to swallowing, how big my last bf was (who he met many times), how I once peed on the ground behind a booth at a festival, etc.

I'm a very private person normally, but something about him knowing my secrets, that he could easily tell everyone in the friend group if he felt like it, turns me on to no end once I get home from hanging out with him. Knowing that while we work on a group project for class, he's sitting there with the mental image that my labia are super puffy and dark knocking on his mind. It's really not the same typing those things out here because it's anonymous and I won't have to face you multiple times a week like I face him.

I secretly yearn to someday have that sitcom moment of him walking in on me completely naked while I'm changing or getting out of the shower, both of us freezing in surprise, then him ducking back out apologizing but never able to unsee. It will probably never happen, but I get so hot thinking about it.