My ex told me she wanted to tie me up and spank me, "just for fun". I consented, thinking it would be kinky playful stuff. Once she had me tied down though she got a belt from the closet and started whipping me on the butt and thighs full out, overhead full arm swings. The pain was unbelievable, I screamed and just out and out sobbed. I begged her to stop, that it was not fun and I thought she loved me. She'd stop and then begin whipping me with the belt again. I was genuinely terrified she was going to kill me, It probably lasted ten or fifteen minutes but seemed forever. Before she untied me she made me tell her how much I loved her, kiss the belt, say I liked what she did to me, all with the threat she'd start whipping me all over again. When she untied me I yelled at her, asked what was wrong with her got dressed and hobbled out. She said she thought I'd find it exciting and I called her a crazy bitch. We'd been together 18 months and I found out she was bipolar and never told me and had stopped taking her meds. I was black and blue on my ass thighs and calves for several wedks.
I'm still scarred psychologically, I can't trust women now, in fact I'm actually a bit afraid
Of them now.