hi my youngest daughter posted on here about are "open family" she's 19 and has a habit of saying/typing love you at every possibility

on seeing the positive response her post received, I thought id come and explain why me and my husband decided to invite are 2 daughters and son to are love making.

so here I am, I was raised in a very strict catholic family that demonized sex in all is forms, the human body especially the female body (being the source of original sin) as well as any form of popular entertainment.
my bedtime stories where all about how bad little girls go to hell and all the different kinds of sin. (trust me on this there is nothing Christian or good in threatening your children, I still have the nightmares to this day)

I grow up terrified of my own body and the sin it was always tempting me with. the sin was pretty much anything outside my house. if I heard some pop music in a shop and I enjoyed it I would have to pray for an hour or more to absolve my sin. so you can imagine the fear, guilt, self loathing and disgust I would feel when seeing an attractive boy.

it wasn't until I was 18 and went on a girls only camping trip organized though church, that i learned my parents interpretation of the Christian doctrine was one of abuse. on the first day me and a girl i was sharing a tent with where on pot washing duty, and there was a small radio witch she promptly tuned to (I think radio 1) and I fell apart, years of mental abuse and some times physical abuse finally broke me. in short I had a mental breakdown. I don't really know what happened after that but I woke up in hospital, apparently they had to sedate me quite heavily. after talking to the psychologists later that day it was decided the best treatment would be for me to go live with the most woman who organized the camp (the most lovely woman ever) so I did.

a day latter my tent mate came round in tears to apologize for hearting me, thinking my breakdown was her fault. and just like that I confided the whole f-ed up mess of it to her. we are now best friends, I love her for all time, she is the one who brought me out of my shell and showed me how to live for pure joy and pleasure.

me and my husband (more me than him) decided to raze are family to know joy and seek joy, to love music, art, film, fashion and sex they are happy, healthy, adventurous young people who know there parents love them.

i know you won't understand but there are my reasons