My husband has been wanting me to have anal sex since we started dating. That was 3 years ago. I finally gave in this past weekend, and it was the most painful, horrible thing ever. He was jabbing into me like a demon possessed, he knew he was hurting me, I was crying and begging and he wouldn't stop. I have him a BJ about an hour earlier in our car so he lasted 45 minutes. It was 45 minutes of hell and I told him never again. That was Saturday night, he woke me up Sunday morning, holding me down on my stomach and did it again. At least this time it was only about 15 or 20 minutes but again, I was begging him and crying, yelling to stop. I had to go through it once more in the afternoon, then in the evening he had regular sex with me which was fantastic, but as he was ready to cum he shoved it in my butt again and shot off there. He says it's the only way to get used to it. But he never even tried to be gentle. It did hurt a lot less yesterday afternoon. This morning he ate me out, and I gave him a handjob before he went to work. He says he'll come by at noon to "open me up" some more.