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I have been seeing this guys who is in his 50s. Fit guy, sweet and we've known each other for about 3 months now. I really like him. We haven't had penetrative sex. Only oral. I am the one who didn't wanna rush into it and he is respectful about it.

We make out alot, he loves to go down on me. I enjoy giving him blowjobs but till now he has not ejaculated from my blowjobs. I do everything that I know about sucking cock. He would tell me that he is close but somehow ends up having to jerk off by himself.

I am a little disappointed with myself. He feels good spraying his cum all over me, my face, in my mouth but I certainly wish that it was from my blowjobs and not his hand. He says it's cool though. I believe him but still. Just felt like getting this off my chest. Thank you for reading.

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# 35992 - by Anonymous / July 6, 2017
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by Anonymous on Jul 6, 2017 at 4:11 PM

You are not doing anything wrong, if that is what you are thinking. Men getting older tend to get insensitive like that. He loves it, believe me. But young men in their twenties are more ready to spill seed than enjoy sex. Older men enjoy sex and they have more experience so they are not so sensitive than young men.

Age does that. Soon you will notice how your sexuality will change too into more mature way. Dont get nervous about it and if it takes longer for him to cum. Just show him how much you enjoy having sex with him.

If you are only sucking him, then maybe you should do something more. Why there is no penetrative sex? You know, sex can be so much more than pre-scripted act where you suck him, and he licks you. Try that penetrative sex but when he is getting ready to cum in you, climb off of him and then suck him. Or let him masturbate in front of you. Masturbate yourself too, and when he is about to cum, then take his cock into your mouth and have oral sex until he cum into your mouth.

If he says he is cool with the way you two are doing now, then relax because men will speak truth. Believe me, when you are getting older and more experienced, you will learn that you are not responsible of his orgasm, but both of you are responsible of your own. At first that may sound a bit selfish, but that is true. When you understand that it is not your job to make him cum, but to make him enjoy your sex, that will make your sex so much better.

Have fun with him and enjoy your time with him.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 6, 2017 at 10:51 PM


Love your attitude.
You are so sweet and special and absolutely right about older guys needing.
I'm 63 and you're just what I hope to find.
If you're anywhere near Dallas, would love to meet.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 7, 2017 at 9:50 AM

Thank you both for the replies.
As for why no penetrative sex, it is because I am a little conservative. We are in the "getting to know each other" phase and I don't want to rush into it.

After reading the comments, I feel much better now :)

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 17, 2017 at 9:30 AM

To be more precise: as we men get older it often becomes more difficult to push it over the edge and cum. I suspect the issue is muscle tone but it may be hormonal, or even something else. I know that I can ejaculate fairly easily but that is NOT the same as cumming. In fact, true orgasm for me is rare. True orgasm requires slow deep strokes and a pretty constant rhythm, whereas ejaculating requires rapid light strokes. Another thing that is required for me to orgasm is the mental bit - that means set & setting are very important - being madly in love helps a lot - but you can't just manufacture that...
It also means that any break in concentration usually ruins it, leaving me the choice of switching to ejaculating instead or just letting it wilt and switching to a different position / activity.

If your guy is the same, he may actually tell you that long, slow, sensual, sex is way better than a mad rush to orgasm. I feel absolutely no loss for not cumming during a particular session - but sometimes do "relent" and push things to "simple ejaculation" for the benefit of the women who feel they are doing something wrong otherwise.

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