My male friend is not my partner but just a good friend and we have sex once in a while. I have been twice married and do not plan on it again. I also do not plan on exclusive relationships of any kind. My male friend matches me in one way. He is close to being a sex addict but has a powerful will and does not get carried away with lust. When he is in trouble, he comes to me an in the least, I give him a good hand-job and he settles down.

Using one of my old wedding rings, we usually pose as a married couple. Believe it or not, this turns people on who want to fuck us "on the side." We then make believe we are cheating on each other. Posing as marrieds, we usually tell those wanting us "not to breathe a word of it" and "I feel so guilty but it feels so good." We have no idea why that works but he's nailed down over 100 women sex partners that way and I've done at least twice that many men.