Ok ladies. I have a question. I'd like to hear a female's point of view. My wife and I have been married almost 20 years. We have a good sex life -- which is to say it's always the same vanilla sex. She rides me and then I usually hit her from behind. Some oral foreplay but she's not interested in much else.

Now to my question. As she was growing up and became sexual, she never got into masturbation. I still masturbate from time to time excersing my brain. Lately I've been wondering because she never got into personal satisfaction creating senorios in her mind that she never developed her brain the way someone that has masturbated does. No sexual fantasies at all. Does anyone think there is a link or just different strokes for different folks? Hope to hear from you ladies. Let me have it.