why do guys and even shitty skanky women think the only aspect of sweetness in a woman is being r**e-able or treated like sludge whore? and crass. like "sweetness" can be in a smile or caring attitude and good conversation, but not just about crude sex. some women might like rough rude sex but some women want better then that and some men do as well. there are a lot of men and women who enjoy good company and time and sexual exploring gradually and finding courtship rather then all out ratting. I might like a good time in romance and now and then I like a bit of fun but it does not have to revolve around sexual crudeness.

to me having a good time is about gentleness without sex but the promise of it and that whole build up to romantic anticipation and then having a nice sexual experience based on friendship and some lust. I have to say I have never had that yet, but long to.

I am more of a shy person but I learnt my lessons and looking for quality now.