I don't think my life is normal at all. I live with two other girls. We pretty much sleep together in a king size bed. We are small so we all fit on the bed. We are not experimenting, we are now in our early thirties and we have lived together for seven years. We have two way and three way sex together all the time. We have all had boyfriends from time to time, but nothing sticks. None of us are virgins in that sense, we have all had intercourse with men.

We aren't confused, we know we are lesbians. Getting together with guys is more about going places with them, and sometimes we have sex with them, but it is over as soon as he is done. We go home where we belong. For me I could go with never having sex with a man. Intercourse bothers me. I would say that we have all gotten over having sex with a man.

We have dogs, but no children. I guess that is the one thing that we have not fully agreed on. When and who. Straight couples never have that discussion, who should be the one to get pregnant. The idea of being pregnant is easier for me to accept now than it was when I was 25. We have some girlfriends that got pregnant with an anonymous donor service. I'm not saying that is the way we would go, what we have discussed, we agree that any children will be from a known and involved baby father. Plus I don't think I would ever go to a service, that seems pretty cold to me.

I am not confessing to anything, I guess I am writing because we are on the next doorstep in our lives, being parents.