Most girls have trouble understanding the being used at a young age. Most experiences seem negitive on the girls life. Mine is different. When I was 14 my hormones where getting the best of me. My family lived in a close area of each other. I have this uncle that always spent a lot of time with us. He wasn't ever out of line in anyway with the many kids as we grew up with him. He was in his mid 20s and trying to get a wife. My mom let us dress skimpy, she dress skimpy around home herself. One afternoon while killing time walking around I stopped by to visit with him. I was braless with a tank top and tight shorts on. He got me a glass of tea and I sat beside him on the couch. After talking a while he told me I needed to start wearing a bra. We talked about breast a moment. I raised my top to show him my breast. He got embarrassed but finally reached over and started fondling them. He saw the effect it had on me so he rubbed me through my shorts. I had a massive orgasm. We played at this level a time then it progressed to him fingering me. Then he finally let me see his penis and I learned how to give blow jobs. When I was almost 18 he started doing all with condums. I graduated high school and moved off to college. He finally got a wife and went through 2 boyfriends before I got married. I realize he needed a strong will to turn down my coming on to him. My sisters would ask me why I didn't masturbate but I didn't tell them I was getting the real thing. I was my husbands first sex. He thought my sexual knowledge came from former boyfriends. My uncle and I haven't had sex since I went to college. He moved about 30 minutes from the home place. We visit as close family friends when we have family hangouts. I know why his wife is a happy married lady.