This guy I'm seeing is in his mid 50s. I love being with him. He makes me laugh and everything feels so right when we are together. He is young at heart but uh... uhm... I will put it blatantly... his cock isn't. His erection is solid during foreplay but he can't hold it for long when we have intercourse. Rather than feeling disappointed, I actually feel bad that he is embarrassed about it. He never should apologise for not being hard enough to make me cum vaginally.

He goes down on me like a champ, I have explosive orgasms just that when we move on to getting his cock in and out of me... it turns soft. It's been 6 months but we only started having sex about 2 months ago. He said that he was never quite sexually driven with his previous partners until he met me. I love to tease him, we enjoy touching each other alot.

We fit perfectly with his erection. The girth, length... the other night while we were on it, he drove me nuts. We had stimulated my pussy before he fucked me deep inside. I was very close to climax but I couldn't feel him soon after... his dick was limp when he pulled out. We spooned, awkwardly quiet and I know how awful he must've felt.

He can cum when he jerks himself, occasionally from my bj or sometimes he'd leave it at that. But he always makes sure that I have an orgasm by oral or finger. I don't know if I would ever suggest Viagra, or if I will ever know the right time to mention about this matter without sounding offensive.

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by Anonymous on Oct 11, 2017 at 9:48 AM

I am the same age as this guy. My wife and I have always had a great deal of sex as I am very sexually driven. The past few years I have had to use Viagra to help me stay hard.
Just this morning I didn't take any Viagra and went limp inside her. She tried everything in the world to help me regain hardness to no avail.

Have you guys talked about medication help for the situation?

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by Anonymous on Oct 12, 2017 at 1:28 AM

Not yet. I'm not quite sure how to bring up the topic as he does feel gutted about his condition. He is young at heart and I really don't want to bruise his ego.

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by Anonymous on Oct 12, 2017 at 8:31 AM

Seeing as he seems fine with other forms of sex like bj and hand job I wonder with the newness of your intimacy if there isn't some mental block going on now especially since e now he is nervous about it happening Everytime you try intercourse.

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by Anonymous on Oct 12, 2017 at 8:41 AM

You're awesome to be so patient with him.
You must be a babe, every older guy's dream girl I'll bet.
He needs help but just doesn't know how to ask for it without appearing somehow inadequate in your eyes.
That is his worst fear.

If you want consistent good hard pounding, the whole package, get him Viagra.
Don't even ask.
It's not JUST for guys struggling to keep it up.
It helps ALL guys.
I took it when I didn't even need it, just to see what it was like, if it was all what it was played up to be.
It is.
I came twice, hard pounding, in my wife's pussy, and didn't lose ANY hardness.

Just do it.
Surprise him.
You'll both be glad... believe me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 12, 2017 at 10:24 AM

Cock ring.

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by Anonymous on Oct 13, 2017 at 11:01 AM

Thank you for the feedback. And thank you #4 for sharing!

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by Anonymous on Oct 14, 2017 at 7:41 PM

This is #4.
You're very welcome.
You're an older guy's dream, baby.
You have a sister?
Or anywhere near Dallas, TX.?
Keep us all posted with updates on how things go.

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by Anonymous on Oct 26, 2017 at 9:47 AM

I have the same problem only mine are due to broken back and pinched nerves. I take meds but they don't work. They make me really hard but for only a few minutes. But I make sure my wife is satisfied in every way. I make sure she climaxes if she wants. We use toys sometimes but it does play with my head , as a guy, when you can't get it up. My wife says she doesn't mind and what we do she really enjoys. Just let him know it doesn't bother you as my wife does for me. It helps knowing that it doesn't bother her and that I can give her multiple orgasims when we have sex.
We don't like to admit it but we're getting old and things don't work like they used to. Make sure he knows you're satisfied. It'll help him

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