My wife and I have been married 6 years now.

A little back story is she was m****ted when she was growing up by her uncle for a year. And I myself was m****ted by a neighbor guy for two years till I finally my mom found out.

I'm pretty much over what happened and my wife knows not to touch my butt. I'm a bit self conscious about that body part.

But the issue is my wife still struggles with her childhood and we barely have sex. I understand her problems but after 6 years of marriage I'm wanting to get her comfortable with sex