I had my daughter when I was 16 and at the time I was intimate with three boys so I have no idea who was the dad. My childhood was open sex, even some with some family but it was so free we did not have to turn to each other for sex, This was not the case with my daughter, Lil, who people take for my sister. Lil and I became intimate when she was 15 after years of hugging, kissing (lovingly) and just being very close. It's as natural to us as can be. When we date men or women, if the date makes a pass at the other one of us we write him or her off. If he or she behaves honestly toward us we say, "He or she's a keeper."

We'e done it all and love it all. We know there are woods filled with judges out there but we care not. It is our life and both of us are aware how short life is. Just saying.