How to have a happy marriage.

This started as a comment on another postI i felt many men could benefit from it so i put it here. I have been married over 25 years and happily for us both. The secret for me was I fuck other women but only love her. To be clear fuck I fuck any good pussy i find, and want, and do it without being caught, but only love your wife. The secret is to wholly love your wife, but to see the other women your with as sex on the side not relationships.

Learn to cheat good and be careful and never let yourself get caught. In thise day and age there are tons of websites that teach you how to cheat well, i never had that, i had to figure it out myself. I was cheating pretty often before I reached year 10 she has no idea. She often tells her friends she got lucky and got one of the last faithful ones and i love her. She has it half right, i love her, and treat her like the queen that she is. But if I get a chance to pound a pussy i know she never know about (say on a business trip, from a secure dating app, a random pick in a bar), i am on it, and is makes me a more satisfied, less greedy in bed, caring supportive husband for her.

We are over 25 years of marriage, both very happy, we raised kids, built a home, a good life, but in the last 15 or so years i have fucked more women on the side the i could honestly recount. I practice safe sex always, do std screenings, and double and tripple check my process to make sure before I fuck someone that there is no path of discovery back to my wife.

I bet more guys do this then ever would admit.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 13, 2018 at 11:31 AM

There are many studies about the difference between men and women and one thing which is universally common is that men cheat to keep their marriage or relationship in good condition, mainly because they can't get enough sex or satisfying sex but the life is good. On the other hand women cheat because they want another relationship because they are unhappy with their husband. The difference is that the men still loves, while women do not love their husbands anymore.

Only a handfull of men cheat because they want to escape from a bad relationship. They are minority.

Combine those two together and you can find out another difference between man and a woman. Woman choose with who to have sex and that for women sex means love, while men can understand the difference between sex and love.

There are two outcomes from that. Men who cheat and promise a divorce most often will not divorce because they already have a loving, although sexless marriage. They have a steady status and future. Thousands of studies all over the world tell that men who have a marriage, even though unhappy or sexless, will benefit from it in their career, when men who are not married or are going through divorce will not success in career.

Men who cheat with a woman who wish them to have a divorce know that if they would have a divorce, they would end up with a woman who is capable of cheating too and that is not steady future. That is exactly the same reason why handfull of men cheat when they are in relationship and they are trying to find suitable women. The reason is fear of unsteady future.

Most women who are in relationship and cheat, stay in relationship mainly for economic reasons and seek new man, or they just have the divorce and they begin a new life without a husband.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 13, 2018 at 5:23 PM

you are wrong. just wait till she sends some other guy those naked pics of her pussy and tits, that she hasnt given you. and she lies to you that oh she has not fucked anyone else and you find shes been sending nude pics to some guy and looking on craigslist for bwc. hows that going to make you feel? then when you catch her she denies it all. and you are like bullshit i saw you sent them.

it happens dude.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 14, 2018 at 4:25 AM

I have only been married 3 year and i have cheated several times. She has not idea. It is not personal, my wife is awesome, but a fine pussy that no one will know about is just a perk in life when it happens. Most men i know do this all the time.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 14, 2018 at 6:25 AM

The best way to have a happy marriage is not fall for that trap to begin with. Men, what do you need a girlfriend or a wife for?? You don't! Just stay single, then you can do what you want, when you want, and with whomever you'd like to do it with. No one at home nagging or asking where you're going. Forget it! Just man up and use em and lose em. Hit em and quit em. Bang em and clang em. Pump em and dump em.

That's how you stay happy, and keep everything you've worked for.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 1, 2018 at 7:55 AM

I have been married for over 30 Years and have met up with about 12 other woman during that time. My wife doesn't know even about the one I even spent the night with in her bed while she and the kids were out of town. Unlike you I know who I'm fucking before it happens. They are woman who I at least knew for a year or two. Some married some divorced some college. I always practice safe sex except for the one who was married. I tried to knock her up. but failed. Why??? It was the excitement of it all.

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