When my husband married me he was quite vocal that he wanted kids right away. Also, he was quite vocal about me going camping with him. Neither was on my radar. I agreed to the kids, but no camping. After a year I was unable to conceive for him, tons and tons of tears, doctor after doctor. I was told it was most likely him. How do you tell a man he is probably not fertile enough to impregnate you?

I agreed to one camping adventure. He planned it out, seven days, high country, vistas he wanted me to see. I suffered so much, I hated it, hated it. We had sex once out there, and not my choice or idea. He was grossly aggressive and nothing I said made any difference. I also got pregnant.

My relationship with him is different. I am, to put it mildly, his baby factory, I am on number three. His bedroom demeanor is also different, no is no longer in my vocabulary. ;