My wife and I got married after my one year of college. We were and still totally in love. When we started having children life got busy so we didn't have sex as much as we wanted. I found out later she was addicted to masturbation. The first signs and I didn't know at the time was she would be hot and wet after I got the kids asleep. I thought she was excited about me coming to bed. When the kids became teenagers was when I realized what was going on. She didn't know I could here the massager when we were in a different part of the house. I would watch tv with the kids and my wife would be using the vibrator. This was daily. When she got in her mid 40's she stopped wanting sex with me. The kids moved out so we had time but she still had no sex interest for me. She would let me have it about once a month. I even decided she may be cheating with someone else. We even started sleeping separate because I would want sex and she would be offended. I was in an electronic store and I came upon infrared spy cameras. I bought one. The first night i watched her get 3 orgasms without the massager. I would leave for work an hour before her then she would pull out the massager. She finally spotted the spy camera. She was furious. She was really upset I had been spying her. I came back how her masturbation had prevented me from sex for years. She admitted to being hooked on masturbation and became apologetic. We discussed this for days and the solution was to mix her wanking in with me having sex with her. It works well. I ask her to go warm it up then I would come up and have sex. She was shy at first but while having sex I would tell her to rub herself. Sometime I would orgasm before her then she would wait till I got up and get her orgasm without me. She asked me to help her find a way to stop massturbating but I told her to please continue. We have had sex this last year more than the previous 10 years combined. Have any husbands been a victim of your wife masturbating? Please share.