I am insanely attracted to my son and it's getting hard to fight. To give some back story, I divorced his father about 5 years ago and haven't had sex at all. Plus his father and I hadn't touched each other in ages before the split up.

My son is 23. He's tall, handsome smile, muscular chest, beautiful dark hair. He makes me feel like I'm some naive horny school girl again.
This started when he was about 16 and only gets worse and he gets older.

Due to fear of his disgust I never had trouble fighting these urges. But the other night I found some mom/son i****t porn in his search history. I know I shouldn't have invaded his privacy but I wanted to see what he was into and figured he had tons of porn in his history. He did and over half was mom/son.

My stomach filled with butterflies and my pussy was throbbing. I watched a few and they were insanely hot. It was obviously just pornstars roleplayimg but hot none the less.

Now knowing he watched those makes it harder to fight. I wonder if he wants to fuck me or if he just likes the fantasy and would rather it be a different older woman.

It's been so hard not to climb in his bed every night. Last night I was touching myself while watching him sleep. I've never wanted a man more than I do my boy.

Should I move on these feelings? If so how? I'm at a loss. Anyone with any advice please let me know. I can't fight it much longer.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2018 at 5:22 AM

Dear Straight Mother,

Every young boy passes through this phase and some get "the experience" in actual life though they don't( and considering the legal aspect shouldn't) talk about it.

You have this option,since you are irresistibly attracted to him - Talk to him about having discovered the videos and assure him that he is normal and to not feel guilty or embarrassed about it. Tell him that this fantasy turns you on too.Offer to watch the videos with him and then ask him if he really wants the experience which will fulfill his fantasy as well as yours and that he gets a hands on training with an experienced woman.If he says no,stop there.You can't force it on him.Don't forget to tell him to not talk about it to anybody else.

If he is ready,your work is done.Again,he is not supposed to boast to his friends--as that will get you into legal trouble.He is 23 so it will not be a situation that would arise if he is 16 or so.

I won't pass any judgement as long as the relationship is consensual.If you feel so inclined,you can keep us posted. I am a medical practitioner and have many such cases where there hasn't been any adverse psychological impact and both mom ans son have moved on with their lives later finding their individual partners and so we the society has no business adopting a high moral ground.I won't encourage it either.I am just trying to help you .

In case this is just a fantasy only to arouse us ,let's both laugh away the same.
You can reject my advice straightaway.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2018 at 6:03 AM

You should probably go to the /r/i****t sub on reddit. lots of mothers talking about their sons in the last few months.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2018 at 10:37 AM

Go for it

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2018 at 2:08 PM

Do nothing different, I think
Keep edging with the fantasy and let yourself glow with it. When you can be happy and happier with it. He will note e something is different. If he wants a particular difference, he is likely to "see" it in your glow, and sparks may follow

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2018 at 8:15 PM

Wow.
A Very HOT and sexy imbroglio.
What's a mother to do?

JK and I mean you no disrespect.
I wouldn't over-analyze it, at least not as much as #1.
But #1 is right about communicating and about the fact that you can do this without adverse effects, if, of course, you do it consensually.

Obviously you're not selfish and you do care or you wouldn't be posting this.
Just the way in which you explained the situation makes that clear.
There's no doubt you love your son very much and do not want to cause any damage or be hurt either.

So all that said, where does that leave you?

First of all, I'm going to assume 2 things:
1. your post is true
2. you're a very sexy mature who any 23yr. old guy would love to fuck

Here's what I think.
It's a fact that people watch specific types of porn because that's what turns them on.
The problems always arise with other assholes who decide the specific types of porn they don't like should not be allowed.

Thus as a result you have old-fashioned traditional taboos.
Well taboos are made to be broken.

Personally, I like all-internal gangbangs, young black guys doing a white mature.
It took me years just to admit this to myself and more years to finally start enjoying watching my particular kink

That's how hidebound our culture is and how much quilt is still attached to sex.

Bow, some porn stars that fit this specific niche I like are Janet Mason & Harley Raines.

Sure, I watch a lot of other types too, and when I watch with a woman, out of courtesy, we watch what she likes.
Why? Because it really is all about the women in the end.
If we both like the same kind of porn, cool. Works even better.

My point here is that your son is not watching black on white gangbangs.
Is he watching three-somes porn?
Is he watching gay porn?
Is he watching share-your-wife-with-your-friends porn?
Is he watching I-fucked-my-best-friend's-hot-mom porn?
Is he watching I-fucked my-hot-younger-sister porn?
Nope, nope, nope, nope, AND nope.

Well then what is he watching?
He's watching one type of porn exclusively BECAUSE HE LIKES IT THE MOST.

He's watching mom-son porn.
Why? Because it really turns him on... a lot.

And he's watching it because his own mother is really hot.
He almost assuredly fantasizes about fucking you and masturbates regularly thinking about how awesome it must feel to shoot his load in your pussy.
And I'll bet money he's probably been masturbating thinking about you for a long time.

And don't buy the "it's a phase every boy goes thru",
That's a crock of Freudian shit IMO
I never did. None of my friends did.
In fact, #1's comment is the first time I've even heard of that other than reading Freud.

As the saying goes "you can't turn off to what turns you on".
So here's what you do.

Do things that are unconsciously sexy around your son.
But that you know will get his attention.

Change how you look and dress around him.
Stop wearing panties or bra, shave your pussy, wear clingy, sheer, see-thru things around the house or show off your legs in long tee shirts with nothing underneath.
Bend over in a miniskirt. Leave your sheer robe untied, etc.

Get dressed up sexy and ask his opinion of how you look.
Same with hot make-up.
Accumulate reactions.
It won't take long to know what he's thinking for sure.

THEN approach him and open up about the porn on his computer.
But do it in the same breath as telling him you love the same type of porn.
Ask how he would feel if that were to happen.
Ask if you can watch some with him if he wants.

Tell him you love him and will always be his mom and would never do anything to hurt your relationship but you think he's grown up into a gorgeous man and you have very strong and re-occurring desires for him as a man and if he is willing to trust you, you want to make it a wonderful experience for him.

And do all of this in some kind of easily accessible clothing.
Lingerie. sheer bathrobe, bath towel tucked at your tits after a shower... whatever.
Something where you could flash your shaved pussy and that would show hard nipples easily.
Something that would allow him to touch you easily.
Or just take his hand and touch yourself for him.

You're the woman.
You know how it works.
You're the experienced one.

Don't feel guilty and don't look back.
And tell him the same.

There was girl who posted about something similar with her brother.
I told her the same thing.

And I agree with #1 on one more point.
If this happens, you owe us a blow by blow account with all the dripping details. lol

Please send also to doodahday1950@@g***l.**m
Would love to talk to you more.

Best of luck and wish I could be a fly on the wall :))


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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 28, 2018 at 9:21 AM

Go with with your feelings so you can never regret not going with it later on

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 1, 2018 at 4:12 PM

#5 here, stopping by to say hello.
Hope to hear from you.
Wish you the best.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 5, 2022 at 1:34 AM

Don't mention seeing the porn he will be pissed that you were looking through his computer, one of the posters said start wearing sexy clothes, good advice, maybe leave a nice pair of used panties where he can find them, you will know very quickly if he wants you in his bed.

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mountainman

by mountainman on Mar 14, 2023 at 2:41 PM

Really hot You desire your young stud of a son.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 12, 2023 at 4:42 AM

I am attracted to my son also. It doesn't help that he checks me out a lot also, especially when I'm in my nightgown. By the way, he is 23 and I'm 44....He is going through issues with his girlfriend and my husband left me about 4 years ago. The huge bulge in his jeans when he's looks at me...lets me know what COULD happen...and YES, I love the attention that he gives me!!!!!.Keep us posted.

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Soncr8vmom

by Soncr8vmom on Jan 11, 2025 at 7:28 PM

Any current updates?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 16, 2025 at 3:37 PM

Some women must be very desperate for a sex partner when they desire their own sons.
Incest results in deformed babies.

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