After 12 years of marriage, I keep in shape and try to keep the sex life happening with my husband. I do all the stuff he wants. For the last 3 years I have stopped wearing panties, except during my periods, at his request. He likes me in dresses and skirts when we go out in public, even if just to the grocery store or mall. He doesn't want me wearing panties and if the wind catches my skirt or dress, so be it. He likes me to sit somewhere in public and let him see and take pictures up my skirt without any panties on. He has had me grow my hair back in, he says it looks better when peeked upon. He has me intentionally flash some single men when I or we are out and he stands back and watches their interest. I actually find it all very exciting and so does he. We are still keeping things going very well in the sex department.