I had a black woman once tell me she wanted me to strip her & whip her with a belt.
I was taken back by it, but she said it as if it were the most normal thing in the world.
Stranger still is that she & I weren't together, we were friends, she was my neighbor.
There was no sexual history at all between us.

I outright refused her request, because even if it was just a kink of hers, it weirded me out.