I surrendered to my financial reality. I am not skilled at anything that pays well, I have a degree in Art from a local college. My high school friend got divorced and he told me how much he missed having a woman and not being alone. I offered to live with him if I could live with him rent free. I do most of the housework, and I have let him pull me into his room. I can handle the sex, I don't mind. I live in a nice house in a nice neighborhood and he pays most of the bills. I pay what I can afford which isn't much compared to him. It's an arrangement, the sex is the part that takes the most effort. But I really don't mind, it is pretty easy. I don't have a sweetheart at this time.