We both chose the destination, both knowing and understanding what we were getting into. It advertised as a Hedonistic place to stay. And we knew from internet research, both sexes had their opportunity to indulge in extra marital sex. There also was if you required and wanted it, a place further up the coastline, that would cater for purely gay individuals who wanted to experience partner swapping, or a black male that would satisfy your urges to be fucked by a large cocked man.
The first night on the island, no problems. And we both indulged in sex with other holiday makers. My husband fucked an older woman whilst her husband watched and masturbated, and I had a wonderful time with a teenager who took a bee line to me the moment we got there.
Each afternoon or evening afterwards, I progressively had more and more sex, as my husband took a kind of back seat. Sometimes it was with other people holidaying on the island, other times it was a black guy who either worked there or associated with someone who worked there.
Sometimes my husband watched for a short time, other times he'd be gone and I indulged fully then. Taking cock deep up my pussy and arsehole, something my husband didn't like me to do.
On our last night I invited two black males and one of their girlfriends over to our room. My husband sort of took part for about half an hour, then left saying he'd be back later on. I had a fantastic time licking, sucking and fucking with everyone, then spent the rest of the night with the beautiful female having lesbian sex, as the men went off gambling.
When my husband got back in, we were licking each others pussies and he kind of joined in for a time, sticking his cock up her pussy as I licked her sweet pussy from below. He only lasted a few minutes though, and almost passed out beside us. It was then I noticed just how "puffy" and red his arsehole looked. Not saying anything as I was too busy enjoying myself, I later kissed my beautiful lover goodbye and joined him in bed.
The following morning I asked him where he'd been the night before and he got defensive about my question. Not thinking anything of it, I later saw a guy I knew frequented the so called gay section of the resort, and he told me my husband was a cute guy. (My husband is three years younger than me). When I pressed him, he said he and two other black guys, plus an American holiday maker had all fucked my husband the night before, on the beach as a farewell to him for all the good times he'd had with them over the fortnight. He told me as if I already knew my husband was having specifically gay sex. Before he left me, he off the cuff added in his local accent "Great ass your husband has. But boy can he suck cock like no man I've ever known". Smiling his huge black smile, he left kissing me telling me he'd see us next year.
Because we were, like we always are packing up, hectic and late. I totally forgot about the guy and his comments, but remembered on the flight home. I asked my husband about what he'd said and he told me "It's just Leroy being Leroy, making things up again". I didn't press him, but I knew Leroy would say something like that if it wasn't true.
Like I've said at the start, we both knew why we were going and what was there. So I didn't and don't understand why my husband hid what he was upto at the resort. After all he knew all about me fucking other guys and women.
The reason I say all this, is over the last year, he's I believe, been seeing an older guy who he works alongside and I'm sure the guy is fucking him.
We're going back to the island again soon and I plan on having a great time again. The only difference is, my husband has booked us to be much closer to the "gay" section of the resort. The question i have, is why doesn't he just tell me he enjoys being fucked and why doesn't he trust me to accept it. After all, I am openly having sex with his sister every week, whether he chooses to acknowledge it or not.
Ps. He knew when we got together I enjoyed and wanted an open marriage. He was only too happy to marry me, believe me.

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by Anonymous on Aug 23, 2018 at 3:59 PM

Why doesn't he tell you? My best guess is no matter how open-minded and accepting some people claim to be, there might still be some things that those same people might consider going too far and he might be afraid that maybe he went too far, even by your standards. So now he might be afraid of losing you by admitting his enjoyment of gay sex.

I'm not implying you're not open-minded, just that he's unsure of how open-minded you truly are and doesn't want to lose you.

The only way you'll really know is by asking him outright. Have a calm discussion about it, let him know about all the tell-tale signs you picked up on and mentioned here and re-assure him as much as you can that you're OK with it and would like to watch some time if that is something you're interested in.

God knows I'm certainly no expert on this subject, or any other, for that matter. It seems like you two started out with good communication from the beginning of your relationship and you may just need to work on it a little bit to keep those lines open.

Good luck! I wish I was your husband; I'm not sure I'm into gay sex (curious, maybe) but I know I'd love to watch you with other guys and/or girls and participate in the group if you were my wife!



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by Anonymous on Aug 24, 2018 at 8:20 AM

Society says its ok (and hot) for two girls to have sex but for us guys theres still that stigma about two guys, that if you do that you might not be as masculine or like women or whatever.

He doesnt tell you because he thinks it will make him less of a man in your eyes. And hes already competing for your sex with other males.

I get that people enjoy sex with other partners, but you are fooling yourself if you think it wont affect your relationship with each other. Sex and passion is the glue that holds relationships together. If you are both giving that to other people, well...

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by Anonymous on Aug 24, 2018 at 10:57 AM

Social stigma and pressures. He doesn't want to get labeled or thought of differently. I would reccommend that you suggest that both of you visit the gay section, telling him how hot and sexy the thought of it is to you.
Besides where is this place? Sounds awesome!

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by Anonymous on Aug 26, 2018 at 10:40 AM

my step daughter is a lesbian. She is a butch preditor. She ges to straight bars and after a few drinks seduces them into having sex with her. But she does a lot more. She ties them up, uses a strap-on and slaps them aroundf, spanks them and gets them off as many times as she can. She often won't let them leave until she is sure they will beg her to use them again.
I am a straight man, or was, until she got a black friend of hers to r**e me. She was determined to make me gay and she succeeded. If you meet her you will be used and used and used.

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by Anonymous on Aug 26, 2018 at 10:55 AM

I think this whole idea that people should only hqe sex with the opposite sex is ridiculous. It is normal for men to have sex with men and women to have sex with women.
The same is true of race. interracial sex is totally normal,
I also believe no one should only have sex with one person. Variety makes for better sex. Monogomy is frustrating and senseless. My wife and I have sex with anyone we feel like having sex with. We have a very happy marriage.

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