My marriage to my current partner in Hinsdale, Illinois is a lie. I was born Mary Meixner, but my husband Bob made me change my name to Nina Meixner shortly after our marriage. He told me that Nina was a much sexier name than Mary, and he wanted to screw me as Nina, not Mary. I agreed, but he is so dominating in every way. Bob makes me wear handcuffs and a very painful lip ring in bed. He says he can only get a hard-on if I am immobile and unable to fight back. He designed this lip ring with a pad lock that only he knows the combination to. It is extremely painful when he pulls on it during sex, but he says he can only orgasm when I scream in pain. He is also very abusive emotionally, calling me slut in front of my family and squeezing my tits so hard that I have developed bruises than never go away. Now he says he wants to also fit me with a nose ring he has designed. It will also have a pad lock but I dread having him put another ring on me which he can manipulate painfully during sex. I am a very retiring individual and hate arguments of any kind. Should I agree to Bob's new request to keep the peace and preserve our sex life, even though I get no satisfaction?