Sometimes, I feel that it is just too much trouble to try to get my wife in the mood for sex. So rather than try, I opt to jerk off instead. I mean, I love sex, but sometimes you go through all the trouble of flirting and doing things in hopes that she gets turned on, only to be shot down and left with nothing but a hard on. My right hand has never said no, and neither has my left now that I think about it. Does anyone else go through this delima, or am I the only one?