Never married, simply because I am bi-sexual and many people believe me strictly gay. I live alone in a large apartment complex and was dating Coleen who is totally gay, only 25 and beautiful. We went to my complex pool a couple times a week and thats where we met Anthony who is a 22 year old guy living with his parents. He was hitting on Coleen until she told him she was gay. I'm sure he took for granted that I was also gay but never tried hitting on me since its clear I am much older. He is an extremely cute guy and has a nice personality so we continued being friendly with him. On July 3rd Coleen informed me she was moving back to Texas with a past girlfriend. I was very upset about it because the sex we had was fantastic together. Anthony was also disappointed since the sight of Coleen in her bikini had to excite any normal guy. As a week or two went by my sexual gratification was limited to masturbation. I continued talking with Anthony a few times a week and one day after having a few Hard ice tea's I obnoxiously asked him to help me masturbate. The look on his face was shock and I remember him saying "your kidding?". I was drunk enough at the time just to say I was horny and need some loving attention. We went back to my apartment and I kept doubting whether it was a good idea to do this. I told Anthony I was gay to purposely let him know he wasn't going to have sex with me. Thankfully it didn't discourage him from going into my apartment. I got us both a drink and with no hesitation took my bikini off. I don't think this kid could believe what I was doing at first. I laid back in my recliner with knees bent up on the foot rest and opened my legs as far as possible. I was totally comfortable exposing myself but it was Anthony who was blushing. All I said to him then was to satisfy me. He gingerly began feeling my breasts then started fingering me. At that point I could see he was enjoying it and I began instructing him how to use my vibrators and dildos. I think it was the first time I was with a guy in over a year and it felt good just having him see me naked. After I orgasmed a few times I told him to take off his bathing suit and although his penis wasn't the biggest I ever saw he had about a 7" hard on. I took a dab of KY and jerked him off but lied telling him I never did that before. He was happy as hell when he left my apartment and told me he'd come over anytime I want. Today is September 9th an so far he has masturbated me 15 times since the first time. I don't have to tell him what to use on me and I have let him shave me 3 times so far and know he loves doing it. He has 4 times given me oral sex and all I ever do is jerk him off each time. In August I meet his parents and they seemed to be very nice people who are clueless to what goes on with their son and I. I didn't want to have intercourse with him at first but now I think about doing it. I think it is safer to let him think I am just gay. He is way to young for me to get to involved with and I am sure I am only a few years younger than his mother.