I have this thing for big beefy men. I am a big guy myself, coming it at 240 and six foot two. I am getting to know my new lover, he is a bar tender, he is 52, he used to work immigration on the border. I met him on a dating site. I use a dating site to make sure they meet my size requirements and I am not into uncut men. We met up at this restaurant, I told him I would be wearing this Hawaiian shirt at a business lunch place where everyone wears suits and ties. We agreed to get together again for drinks, although I really don't do alcohol.

I liked him when we first met and I was amenable to following him back to his place. He was a bit assertive to start and as we were at his place I let him take the lead and I spent the night with him. We agreed to get away for a few days and we booked a cruise out of San Juan, Puerto Rico. If we get along together for four days then maybe there is something to this.

I don't expect we will spend that much time on deck. I like a strong man and if you pardon the pun, I am looking to go cruisin for a bruisin. We have to get things out in the open first, if we don't like it, then we try again. I like feeling pain. He says he knows how to manage that. I am a big guy. Here's to a good cruise, weather permitting.