When I was 12 years old, my mother made me have sex with a man who had taken us into his home.
The man was 27 years old (my mom was 34 at the time) and after 6 months, told my mom that we had to move out.
She instead offered him us, her 3 daughters, my 16 and 14 year old sisters and myself. She told him that he could have sex with us anytime he wanted just as long as he let us stay

He agreed, but only if she, my mom was there for the initial act.
I remember going into the room and him just waiting for me. I stripped and I listened to everything that my mom told me to do.

When he put his dick in my mouth and told me to suck, I was baffled and in shock. I only knew that a dick went between your legs in to the pussy.
Never knew about blowjobs and ass fucking, but all of that changed. I was terrified and turns out that I was terrible at sucking dick the first time, but within 3 months I was a very skilled deepthroat artist and learned so much from him and my mother.

I tell this story now because we lived with this man for 5 years and though he fucked all of us damn near daily, I don't consider him an abuser. Neither does my sister's.

We all have stayed in constant contact with him and he besides an occasional blowjob has never touched anyone of us again but has been a big financial contributor to us all

Just last week he bought a car for one of my sisters grandsons so he could drive himself to college.