Jess
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I can make some suggestions that might help.
But you have not given much information.
How old is your son?
Do you share a home just the two of you?
Husband or other children?
Explain 'need took over'
Explain how all of this came about in the first place and who made the first move.
You aren't alone,Jess. When you mentioned that need took over,it could be that your husband is absent or isn't able to satisfy you. Either way,as long as you both are comfortable( here I mean a consensual relationship)and be happy together,DON'T FEEL GUILTY.Sin and wrongs( pertaining to i****t) are only meant to protect the structure of a family( when there is a possibility of conflict between father-son,mother -daughter and another possibility of genetic defects).As long as there is no husband or he doesn't/wouldn't know or has given his permission AND there is no possibility of children out of i****t,why bother?
I have known many i****tuous couples who are happy together and no one among the relatives or friends ( remember this as either can disclose the exciting relationship to someone who they trust only to be betrayed)know. I know only as a professional and will never disclose their names.
Read:- Case Studies under FULL MARRIAGE EQUALITY blog (FME are all together,I just made it
easier for you to read)
I am currently consulting ( only over how they can safely proceed)
a mother -son couple which got into i****t,when the husband of the woman died.She also had A NEED and he was delighted to fulfill it. They are very happy.Nothing compares a true love and sex relationship between a mother and a child.So don't feel bad AFTER.Respecting the need is better than suppression of the desire.You will NEVER BE SORRY AFTERWARDS,I assure you.
Here you both want and even need it.Let's know how it progresses.Good luck.
Reply to No 2 Comment.
Thankyou for your interest, in a way my husband is absent he is a heavy drinker he spends his time in the bar with his friends, I am 41 and fit and attractive, I have tried to arouse his sexuality when we are in bed but he turns over and tells me to play with myself which I do very frequently, my sexual drive is still very strong, I am very wet down below while typing, the involvement with my son was unexpected I don't mind giving details if your interested, its good to talk to you.
Jess
Well Jess, as someone who is into it with my mom's, i can tell you there's nothing wrong with it. We have been doing it for over 10 years. At first we were like you but once you get past the initial hesitation it's actually very rabbi and fulfilling.
This is Commenter #1 again.
I recently helped a mother in the same situation.
Last I heard, she and her adult son were doing really well and very happy.
They had even brought another family member into their bed
Commenter #2 has had a lot more experience.
Commenter #4 is speaking from first hand experience.
Because it has the 'taboo' label there is heavy guilt attached.
There is guilt attached to EVERYTHING sexual in America because our culture is so strapped by moral and religious restrictions.
We are the only major nation in the world afraid to show a tit on a TV commercial.
My point is that you should stand this whole thing on its head.
Ditch the guilt and go for it.
Explain to your son how much you love him and that your desire is in addition to that, not instead of it.
Do all the things you would love to do with him and teach him how to treat a woman, how to make love to her, what makes her feel sexy, etc.
Try new things with him.
Go to a strip club together, a swingers club together, fuck his friends if that is an option you like, etc.
The world is your oyster.
My name is Doug.
doodahday1950@@g***l.**m
Would love to hear more details and help in whatever way I can.
I think you and your son are awesome.
A simular incident happened between my mom and me when I was 14 years old. I had masturbated many times but had never been involved in sex. All I really knew was what I had heard other teens talk and stories I had read. But, we lived in the country, my dad owned his own business and spent many hours with the business. So, mom normally took an afternoon nap and this particular time was on a war, summer afternoon, no school. She didn't trust me outside alone, afraid I wander off and get into trouble. S o she made me come and lay in bed with her. Like normal, I lay there and let my mind wonder and start my feet to shake. Mom told me to stop that, it as bothering her from her resting. I did knock it off but soon afterward I began to think of this cute girl in my school and began shaking my feet again unconsciously and Mom turned and gave me a slight slap across my stomach and told me again to knock it off. But, this time she struck me a little low and I had a boner. She struck it and curiously ran her hand under my pants and said, "Wow? Are you daydreaming about me?" I didn't know what to say but she commenced squeezing my hard and playing with it. It was, I'll admit, effecting me more. She turned toward me, continuing to jack me off as I then knew it and she took one of my hands and placed it on her tight and firm tits. She told me to play with them. I did and she asked if I had ever mad e love to a girl before. I said I had not. She asked if I wanted her to teach me what a girl likes. All I could say was, "If you want to." She then began to rid me of my summer shorts. Back then we boys wore no under ware, just our knee length shorts. She then took my hand from her tits and placed it on her warm and wet pussy. She began rubbing and fingering her pussy using me hand also. I do mean this was making me more passionate if possible.
To make this shorter she did start sucking me hard dick which was about to drive me crazy. She wanted me to use my tongue to play and suck on her pussy. I was hesitant until she put her hand on my head and forced my mouth upon her pussy. It did not taste as I suspected, rather it taste sweet and I enjoyed it. We finally get into the regular sex position, me on top, and she took my hard dick and guided it into her hot an wet pussy. She and I banged away for as long as we could. I shot my 14 year old load into her waiting pussy and she told me to not worry, that she was on the pill and I could not get her pregnant. This was not the only time this happened. I think we both looked forward to it. We continued this until I finished high school and joined the military. I'm sure we both remembered and thought about this each time we got together later but never mentioned it.
I ggot married a few years after joing the military and Mom died from a blood clot a couple years after that.
I could have talked forever on this but have to cut it off before everybody gets pissed for using so much time and space.
Hello,Jess,this is commentator #2.
Yes,it's quite common the condition your husband is facing.I don't know if you have informed your husband about it or whether you should .It's better to enjoy without informing anyone,though.There is that added exciting element of secrecy.
Enjoy yourself.Age is not a problem.You are quite young.I have seen 60 year old women who keep themselves healthy and are blessed with good looks. I wish I could see you.It's not prudent to show yourself to anyone .considering the stupid illegality attached to Incest.
Don't let your son--(1)make a video out of your sweet experiences or even take snaps when you peacefully doze off after a couple of love sessions.Youngsters or even grown up men do this. Don't give in to that temptation and sternly warn your son against this.(2) Let your son know that you will still be his mom and he has to treat you with respect( though the inhibitions should be dropped to enjoy fully) and NOT disclose anything to anybody.Youngsters do this as well,especially if some friend/s of his tells him about his true/concocted stories about his sister or mother( at times it's done to extract confessions from your son--since you are a beautiful woman and many of his friends might be thinking and fantasizing about you).(3) Don't fall for a threesome with any of his friends or others.Frequently,some pairs are tempted to try a variety of experiences.This could be DANGEROUS.You will be treated as a loose woman though men enjoy themselves.
Dear Jess,If you need further help or wish to share details,create an email with Tutanota.**m,get a safety key password,share it with me and we can in a secured manner get in touch.This service NEVER asks for your contact number or another mail to verify and confirm your free subscription--though Protonmail and mailfence do.
With Warm Regards,
Thanks Doug. Is g***l secure enough to communicate? Why not Tutanota.**m?
Commentator #6,thanks for sharing your experience and so sorry to learn about your dear mom's demise.
Jess,this is again #2 and #7.
Had forgotten to mention two issues:
First,it's always better to keep it within the family(if consensual and won't damage anybody) than find partner/s outside .There are chances of blackmail,sexploitation,infections(including T.B.) even financial embezzlement.If i****t is immoral so is extra marital relationship but the former is safer.There is a true bond between mom and son.Here,you both are willing Nothing is forced.
(2)About Tutanota- the password isn't shared here.You create one T.account,create a password,let the other party know your tutanota mail,he creates one too.The password is sent to his account.He/she decrypts that and reads your mails and responds likewise.Even the T.team can't access the content.
These are just suggestions and you are free to reject them.With Warm Regards,
To Jess and Commenter #2.
Yes, g-mail is secure.
Have used it before for similar discussions with mother and son.
Jess, I disagree with restricting yourself.
If you're attracted to any of your son's friends tell him.
It's ok to like that and actually very hot.
Your son will naturally want to show you off.
And you'll appreciate that because you probably crave the attention.
Point is don't hold back.
If necessary divorce his father.
And discuss what he might want to do if he meets a woman he might want to marry.
You can be as creative as you choose.
Anyway, more food for thought.
would still love to talk to you. :))
#2,Have you executed something to make g***l secure?What are they?Unlike #2,I haven't tried the email services he has mentioned .
#5Doug,Why do you have 2@@ s?
#12--MY THOUGHT EXACTLY. And why is this Doug telling her to NOT restrict her? Does he want to fuck her too? He wants her to prostitute herself? How pathetic!
Additionally,ther e are ways to hack into any mail and if one Google Searches ,there are actually suggestions to hack into Google.
This is Doug.
Sorry.. typo .. my email only had one @@ bot 2.
Yes I'm real, I've talked to other women in your situation and have helped them.
Anyone can hack into any thing if they know how.
Who gives two shits what people say in their private emails?
That sounds pretty paranoid to me.
No, I have no ulterior motives or agenda.
I don't judge other commenters so I would appreciate them not judging me.
Jess, you're more than welcome to contact me or not contact me.
I only want to help.
Best wishes to you and your son.
#14 thanks Doug, I will keep it in mind
No4. I am in turmoil as what to do, I discussed the situation with my best friend who you can completely tell your darkest secrets, I confessed to her about giving mu son hand jobs and he wanted the full sex, she in turn confessed that she use to mess around with her brother until one day they had intercourse and after they couldn't even look at each other because of the guilt, My son keeps grabbing me and saying come on I know you want this, I order him to stop which he does, he is a big strong lad and my resistance is weakening, I admit I really want to, but I am thinking about after and how I would feel after, the had jobs started when he injured his hands at work and eventually I had to wash him,
Jess,#2,#7,#9 again.I am telling you to decide once and for all.This uncertainty will only add to the misery.
Once you decide to take the plunge,don't look back and PLEASE DON'T TALK TO THIS TRUSTED FRIEND. What she used to do can't be brought under scrutiny now whereas what you will do now WILL BE.She herself might feel like squealing on you. In most parts of the world it's illegal.However,I have known innumerable cases where secrecy is maintained and they have enjoyed.Do whatever YOU want but NOT tell her.Did you read FULLMARRIAGEEQUALITY Case Studies?
Should you really don't wish to get involved with your son,then be strong and put your foot down and get him a girlfriend.THEN,don't feel that you missed a golden opportunity.
I have advised you against telling your husband but at times,I feel you might as well talk to him and determine the status of your marriage as well.Mind well,once you seek divorce,and get into i****t,you will be more open for scrutiny.Society is like that.However,again,I feel that if he doesn't mind your having sex with your son and that keeps the marriage afloat as well as you satisfy yourself and your son.No one needs to know.But warn your son against boasting to anybody.There is NO need to seek your husband's permission but I feel you ARE reluctant to seek divorce,hence this suggestion which will make things easier since he too might prefer you having sex with his son instead of an outsider--which he might feel humiliating.
I have explored various possibilities since I have come across a case where a husband permitted wholeheartedly i****t between his wife and son as he didn't want to be ridiculed by the society and we DO care for the world outside,don't we( no matter what we claim)?
Another case involved an army officer who was to be posted abroad for a prolonged period,so allowed his wife to have FUN with his son and they are both happily frolicking as and when they want.The husband is still stationed away.He too preferred his son to someone outside.
How you approach your husband is again going to involve tact and you can't be direct.Just ask him,why he turns you away and if he wants someone else--if there is boredom established of monotony.If he is willing to have an affair ,your path is clear.On the other hand,if he has lost interest in sex--could be E.D.---you have to tell him about your needs and ask him what are you supposed to do.If he says,go find someone,then ask him about your son and if he gets shocked instead of approving it,explore with him the risks involved with outsiders.He might then relent.
Everything is up to you now.Use tact and do what you will.Just keep friends out unless you want her to find a girl for your son.
Let me know how it progresses.Have you created a free Tutanota account yet?
Why so much correspondence and uncertainty?
Give yourself to him or reject him outright.Choice is yours and stand by the same.
Never offer justification for either and above all-don't wobble.
Why does anyone need guidance about something that is obvious?You are aware of his intentions.Y/N are the only options.
I have written to Doug almost thrice. My g***l is updated so there is no question of not having reached him and if he can write here,he can't be too busy.Something fishy about him.
He is a fraud.Keep away from him,JESS.
Reply to 17,
You were right about this trusted friend she is different to me now, I sure she will not say anything as we both have each others dark secrets, you are all wondering why I want the ultimate taboo but I will not commit, I have to come clean its not the first family I****t relationship I have had, I am going back over 20 years now, it was my uncle on my mums side I herd mum talking about him saying he likes young girls, I was at an age when I was aware if my sexuality I couldn't leave myself alone, I didn't like boys of my own age they seemed silly and immature, I kept visiting him he gave me a key to his house, I truly say he was a good experienced teacher, so its out in the open now.
#17 here,Jess.
It's up to you what you want to do.It's easy for all of us to sit on the fence and advise.
As for the friend,we all know that the best friends can become the worst enemies in life.I am sorry,if I was a bit harsh but now I can understand the cautious/hesitant approach since you have already undergone some experience but as I understand it,wasn't traumatic but left a deep impact.If I am correct on this,why wouldn't you commit yourself to your son now? I seem to be again missing something here.
Do let me know, if you feel like communicating --either here or once you establish a Tutanota.**m account.Regards,
To Everybody,
I finally did it and no going back.
Jess
Congratulations,Jess.#17/21 ( and also earlier #2,7,9 ) here.
I wanted this and you knew it.Never feel guilty.
I just have one lament and that is--I had to visit your confession daily ( and search for the same as time passed) and it's now on Page beyond 10.That's why I wanted you to come to Tutanota. Regards,
Always here to help.Regards,
I will have a look at the site.
Jess
Jess, this is again #2.7,9,17,21 and 23.Did you look up fullmarriageequality ?Look for Case Studies.There are many in i****t and it appears to be an authentic site.
#25 I haven't looked yet but I will
Jess xx
Thanks,Jess for responding.#25 here.
Please do look up this blog.m
This is Doug.
To #19.
No ! I'll tell you what is fishy !
What is fishy is that this is the second time I've read comments on here and found that you had posted negative statements dissing me.
Who ever the phukk you are or claim to represent, I didn't respond to your email because you asked for credentials or papers that I'd presented on the subject or other information.
I'm just trying to help the poster.
I'm not a licensed psychologist or teacher or some self-inflated pedant that travels around pretending to be qualified to discuss such private matters openly.
You have decided to make yourself Jess' personal shrink.
I do not recall her ever requesting that of you.
But what is the most fishy is that you are monitoring all the responses she receives,
Or maybe what is really happening here is that
there is no 'Jess' and you're just some perv in a house of mirrors trying to get pull yourself off by playing head games with posters like me.
I've been coming on this site for years and seen all kinds.
You, pal, are a real piece of work.
This is Doug again.
To Jess
I assumed that you were real and I hope that are.
Congratulations on your decision and I wish you the best.
Don't ever be ashamed or feel guilty about pleasing someone you truly care about or love.
Make it special and satisfying and without guilt or hesitation.
It is well and good to be open to more.
Be creative, be sexy, be uninhibited, do new things you've only dreamed of doing before, and be a new woman in any new way you see fit to be.
Wish I could meet you because you are so sexy and I truly admire women with your kind of courage.
Best wishes.
Ciao'
When I was young and awkward and didn't know how to make it with girls, my mother decided to teach me lessons and make me feel more secure. She jerked me off, which felt less lonely and a lot more fun than doing it myself. She taught me stroking her breasts and tongue-kissing. Step by step it went as far as putting my hands into her knickers, pretending she was a girl from my school, and fingering her. Important was for both of us that I made her enjoy it too. She never openly proposed me to lick or fuck her, maybe she thought I would think that going too far, but I offered it myself. After fucking my mom, which was a joyous, euphoric event, picking up girls all of a sudden was no problem at all and seems to come naturally. I still fuck my mom a few times a year, out of gratefulness AND just for fun. For it is lots of fun.
To Ciao From Jess
Thanks for your comment, I am having a really good time, you sound interesting, would you describe your self
Jess
I have tried Tutanota but it docent seem to work
Jess
Hi,Jess. Try Protonmail then.
I admit I always had that fantasy, but it never happened. The closest I ever got was getting intentionally caught jerking off. When my mom walked in she started to turn away and I asked her to stay, but she just huffed and walked out. We never discussed it after that... But, that was a long time ago. I'm in my 30s now and still occasionally jerk off thinking about it.
If two consenting family are having a taboo relationship why not, a while after my mum walked out I took care of my dads needs I know its immoral, but I wanted to and so did he.
Most woman will not admit publicly because its such a taboo, the first hand job I gave was brothers, next was my uncles, I think they must have talked to each other and something was gay was going on, then several boyfriends, and my son I felt bad about it after but the only way to stop feeling bad is to do it more.
I use to give my dad a blow job, because I know my mum wasn't interested in sex and I felt sorry for him being frustrated, I was at the age when I was aware of my sexuality I played with myself and used household objects for penetration I was surprised by how much my I could get up my c**t, when mum was out I would wear short skirts and no knickers and made sure my dad saw everything, but he didn't make a move on me, so did, when he was in the bath I walked in with only my dressing gown on not fastened and pretended to be surprised that my dad was in the bath, ime cold can I get in like we use to, I didn't wait for an answer I got in naked, dad tried not to look at my body, he got an erection it was poking out of the water, I sucked his cock all the way and have been since
OP, what’s your son’s age? How many times are you having it daily?