I was divorced for 12 years when I met Mitch who is eleven years older than me but the kindest, caring and just wonderful man I ever met. I moved in with him in 2005 and was never more content and happy in my entire life. That is, until he permitted his grandson, from his first marriage, to move in with us a few months short of three years ago. Brian was 16 at the time and Mitch commenced to spoil him rotten and I was guilty also because of his terrible life with his mother. Mitch's daughter overdosed opioids a number of times and has been a mess for years. The only way I can describe Brian is that he is a very smart school wise but with anything else dumb as a rock and a cry baby. Mitch babied him and I went along with it to appease Mitch which led to the way things are today. Brian always did and still does get all "A's" in high school and now community college. He's so smart its scary but he is at the same time immature and a total sissy. I thought he was gay for awhile but found out he watched porn at nights and it was always women in the things he watched. Mitch knew he was watching porn but never said anything saying it was just part of growing up as a teenager. Brian's immaturity and lack of common sense was apparent right from the start. He didn't know me well at all at first yet had no problem going around in his underwear or having Mitch or I seeing him naked. There were many times we saw him masturbating and for some reason Mitch was tolerant of it and insisted I be. I did many times complain about it but it went on deaf ears both to Mitch and Brian. When Brian was seventeen we began to get complaints from some neighbors who had seen Brian in the backyard naked or saw him through open windows. This went on mostly when he was home alone and two neighborhood girls had seen him masturbating. The guidance officer at his school also called several times about how Brian had exposed himself to classmates. I think he is an exhibitionist but Mitch just believes Brian is careless with his privacy. It is out of my control now and although he never says anything, Mitch knows I see Brian naked at least three or more times a week. The worst part is I see him many times with erections and unfortunately see him masturbating often. Brian is 18 now and I inform weekly that if continues his ways he will end up getting arrested. Just last week out next door neighbor told me she saw him naked through the dining room window when Mitch and I were out of the house. I know this neighbor well by now and she also mentioned he had an erection while exposing himself. Now I find myself coming home later from work and avoiding contact with Brian which is difficult to do. I keep telling Mitch to do something about it but he continues to baby his grandson. Brian is a small skinny kid and I can't understand why he wants anyone to see him naked mainly because his penis isn't very big. I believe he exposes himself other places and does this intentionally even to me. I keep warning Mitch but doubt he sees the dark side of Brian and refuses to think he is an exhibitionist.