I've always had the issue of cumming too fast during sex. Sometimes it's really fast, like 30 secs into sex.
Luckily most times I can last a bit more.

I discovered that if I get high, I can last for a good time. But my wife doesn't know I smoke weed.

Guys, What can I do to last longer naturally? Any other guys have this problem?

Women, is it frustrating to have sex with a guy that comes to fast? What is a reasonable time for you?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 24, 2018 at 4:43 AM

I find if I fuck needing a piss really bad it can last ages, its not really enjoyable though

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by Anonymous on Nov 26, 2018 at 12:23 AM

I had this problem and it was because of muscle tension in my pelvic floor. I learned to relax my taint area (you have to be able to keep it relaxed DURING sex - relaxing it before and then tensing it once you start having sex wont help at all). Ive heard it can also be caused by weak pelvic floor muscles. I looked up exercises online for about 3 years and had no success but once i went to a physical therapist it improved drastically in about 2 months. My actual problem was weak abdominal muscles which is what caused my pelvic floor to tighten. I used to cum in 30 seconds to 2 minutes but now i can go about 30 minutes no problem. I really recommend trying to see a physical therapist, it was life changing for me.

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by Anonymous on Nov 26, 2018 at 11:32 AM

I am a black male age 60 and to be open, it takes me lest 30 mins or more before I bust a good nut. Take your time and don,t rush when you are fucking.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 28, 2018 at 12:10 AM

I found a lotion "last long" or other such name, you put it on the underside of your penis head and it numbs it slightly. Just that one spot and wow, I went from 2 to 5 minutes to fucking for literally hours--my cock stayed hard, it always did, and I felt every thing normally, but the tip didn't get too sensitive and make me pop. It was some herb extract stuff I bought online at Adam and Eve. I am sure they don't have the same stuff, but you can probably find similar on any adult toy website.

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by Anonymous on Dec 6, 2018 at 4:24 PM

I can't offer advice for how to stay hard, as I've never had that problem (woman here, lol) but I CAN tell you that if you have that problem, there are ways to work around it. If you come to soon and it seems like she's still very horny (probably the case), focus on making her feel good until you are ready for round #2. My ex was a quick cummer, but he knew how to make up for it. After he came the first time, he'd drive me wild by kissing/nibbling my neck and ears while rubbing my clit,working his way down my stomach and inner thighs, teasing my pussy by kissing and licking around the clit, then had either finger fuck me while eating my pussy or use toys.... it usually didn't take him long to get going again after watching me squirm like that.
And it shows that you aren't "selfish" in bed... think about it, if the shoe was on the other foot and she came in 30 seconds and you weren't even close, you'd be irritated right? Lol. But if you can play with her and go round 2... more pleasure for both of you ;)

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by Anonymous on Nov 21, 2021 at 2:52 AM

I am a bi sexual married male. I also cum quickly. I have a massage once a week and my gay masseur gives me a blow job straight off. 90 minutes later after a sensual massage I fuck him and don't cum for a good 20 minutes or so

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