My ex-wife and I had been married for five years when we first met W and S at a friend's Halloween party. We spent a lot of time getting to know them and enjoyed hanging out with them because they were very similar to us. My wife, L, was Chinese, short, and slim and was 23 at the time and I was a white fairly average build male and 27. W and S were a mixed couple as well (it is fairly common where we live to see a mixed couple between a white male and asian girl). W was Chinese, large breasts, and was 29 at the time. She and my wife got super excited when they found out that they came from the same city in China. S was a tall white male, chiseled and looked sort of like Chris Evans, but no where near as muscular and was the same age as me.
We met up regularly at each others apartments for dinner, went to movies and had double dates fairly regularly. We had planned on even traveling to China together, but when I lost my dad to a heart attack we had to cancel our trip together as L and I went to Michigan for his funeral.
We became good friends with W and S and after a year they dropped a bomb of a revelation and question to us.
My wife was pretty conservative in regards to sex which I wish I knew going in to our marriage. We did have sex a few times before we married, but she didn't like being to adventerous after we got married. Sex happened about once a week and we only did a few positions. She didn't like oral and did not want to try anal. L didn't know, but before I met her I had been with three different girls through high school and college who I had regular sex with when I dated each of them and had tried lots of different things sexually. Two of them didn't mind anal and one of them didn't like it at all just like L. I had also tried gay sex in college four different times with a friend. Both of us were curious and I actually enjoyed the experience. My friend is married and has two kids now and I'm pretty certain his wife doesn't know that we had fucked in college.
W and S had us over for dinner one night and revealed that they had tried swinging a few times in their marriage. They had been married for a year longer than us. They told us that they had sex with two other couples in the past and wanted to start again and wondered if we might join them. My wife was shocked and apalled. We asked some questions and learned that they were both bi-sexual and that they found both of us very attractive and wanted our friendship to go deeper. L was very disgusted by this point and she told them we were leaving. L stormed out. I apologized to W and S and followed after L.
On the drive home L kept saying "Can you believe them? How can they live like that?! How can they ask us to join them!? Ew!" She told me that she was done with our friendship with them. I pretended the best I could that I agreed with her sentiments, but the truth was that I actually found the idea of sharing sex with them enticing. W was very attractive and I found myself fantasizing a few times about her. Her husband wasn't too bad looking either. (Even though I have tried sex with a guy before and secretly am bisexual, I've only ever found a few men to be attractive to me).
W and S tried reaching out to us the following weeks. They apologized for being so bold and asking us, but L wanted nothing to do with them. I kept messaging back and forth with W and told them that L didn't want to talk, but that I didn't hold anything against them. W and I chatted on Wechat almost daily (S and I would occasionally chat online, but W was definitely more active). She and I messaged about a lot of things: work, friends, family, marriage, even sex. She listened and I felt I could be more open with her than L. I shared with her that I had experimented with gay sex in college and my other sexual experiences and that my wife and I had a pretty dull and almost sexless marriage. She was the first person I ever shared any of this with. W asked if I could meet her for lunch near her work.
I drove to her work the next day and picked her up to go to a sushi restaurant near by. It was the first time I saw her in months since L and I left that night. We talked about some little stuff and then she asked what I had thought about their proposal they had made to us. I told her that I actually wished that L was more open sexually and that we could have joined them at least once. She asked if I was open to having sex with both her and S. I said maybe. She placed her hand on mine and looked me in my eyes and asked if I was okay having sex with them without L. I paused and then quietly nodded. She said she would talk with her husband and get back to me and never tell L about our conversation. L had no clue anyway as I had been chatting with W and sometimes S since that night and she didn't know.
A few days went by and W messaged me on Wechat and said "S says he is good with it. Will Friday during the day work?" I had to schedule time off from work, but agreed to meet them when L would think I was at work.
I met them at their place and was a bit nervous. I had no clue how an arrangement like this worked. W and S were very polite and patient and helped ease my worries. W started kissing me and letring me touch her while S watched and he assured me continually he was okay with it. It remember how good it felt to just kiss someone else for the first time since getting married. W unbuckled my pants and slid them off and started stroking and then sucking my cock. The thrill and taboo was a huge turn on. S started kissing me as she continued to suck me. Eventually we all took off our clothes. Both of them were completely shaved and had no pubic hair unlike my wife. S was well hung and uncircumcised. W and I took turns sucking him. After that I started fucking W. It was incredible to have sex with another woman. Her pussy felt different... maybe even better than L. The sex was definitely more wild. She let me fuck her ass to which almost made me cum as I had been desiring anal sex for so long. I came the first time though when S was fucking me in the ass and W was stroking my cock. I came the second time when I was fucking W's pussy and S was fucking her ass. The combination of feeling my balls rub against S as we both fucked W and stairing into W's eyes as she writhed from the pleasure of it all I couldn't help but cum. Thankfully I had protection on.
It was an incredible experience and I wanted more. W, S, and I met up 2-5 times a month. Sometimes I met with S alone, but I did have sex a few times a week with W as their apartment was close to my work and our schedules matched more than S's. I covered for my affair by telling L that I had to do more overtime certain days.
1 year later, the endless fighting and lack of sex and intimacy in our own marriage, L and I got divorced. I took a month on my own, but then took up W and S's offer and moved in with them. I have been living with them for the past 7 years. Both S and I got vasectomies to prevent impregnating W. There have been ups and downs for sure living in a bi-poly relationship and there have been times where jealousy almost ruined our relationship, but we have learned to overcome it. I am much closer to W than S and for the first four years I had sex with her more than S did which was what caused part of the jealousy, but now we balance out and communicate how often we share as a whole and separately. It's complicated and hard for others to understand. Only a few friends and my two brothers and sister know of my relationship with W and S. Most just assume we live together to save on the expensive cost of renting. My ex-wife got remarried two years ago to a French man and moved to France with him. I haven't seen or heard from her since which is all good with me. Both of us are happy now and that is all that matters.