I got suspicious of my wife cheating. Catching in lies about whereabouts. Wearing sexy under garments. 6 hour trips for groceries. Hickies on tits that I knew I didn't put on her. Taking calls outside away from the kids and I. Leaving for work 3 hours early. So I started spying her more until I had good evidence to confront her. Our kids were on sleep overs one night so we went out to eat. We drank a little bit so while talking in the restaurant I asked her. She didn't even try to deny it. She said I should be exploring others because it is fun. She had a swinger attitude and I don't. She likes guys flirting with her. If she likes a guy or in the mood she has set with them. She only does it once or twice a week. She said divorce is out off the question. Her tubes are tied so no pregnancy risk. I live for the kids. She comes in and kisses me and says thanks after she has a cheat. For now I'm going with it.