Okay so my husband and I have been together for a very long time. The sex is great because he has a large dick and I have a very wet pussy and for the most part he knows how to use his tongue and mouth. But he has never really suggested anything more kinkier during sex. I have started to notice he will do whatever I tell him to do while having sex. He is a bit more turned on when I boss him around during sex. So I just started to experiment a little bit first telling him to do little things like spank my ass as he fucks me doggystyle,having him stick his fingers in my ass as he licked my pussy, had him lay on his back as I sat on his face had him lick my asshole. With all this ass play I was hoping to open him up to me playing with his ass.

Well one night I just went for it. I started giving a wet, sloppy blowjob- I mean it was one of the best I have done in a long time. My mouth was sucking with force and my tongue never stopped moving. Then I climbed on top of him in the 69 position.I started deepthroating his dick then I started moving my hands down to his ass rubbing and squeezing it. Then I took my finger moved it down the crack of his ass until I found his little hole he stopped licking my pussy, I could tell he was aware of what I was doing. I had him open his legs a little wider then I lick my fingers and rubbed around the asshole opening he was breathing so heavy and moaning then I lick my finger again I could taste his ass which turn me on even more. Then I went for it I took his dick deep in my mouth then I slowly stuck my finger in his asshole. He was so tight so as I'm sucking I'm moving my finger deeper in his ass. He is moaning like crazy. I tell him to reach down and hold his cheeks open. I ask him if he was ready to cum "yes yes" he says. So I just start really sucking his dick I pushed my finger in deeper started rubbing his G-spot. He looses it. He came so hard and so much, I thought it would come out my nose.

My question for you man is how should I try to introduce more . I think he's starting to open up even more I would love to try pegging with a strap on and I would like to open up to him about my thoughts of women. I would love to try to have a threesome. I just don't know how to express these thoughts and feelings to him without freaking him out.