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Six years ago I seduced my dad. We have a very private and sensual relationship. Lately he's been trying to talk me into dating boys my own age. I have literally been everything a man needs for six years. Including cleaning the house, cooking dinner, doing laundry and making sure that he has ALL his needs and wants taken care of. It kinda hurts my feeling's that he is asking me to date others. For all this time he hasn't complained. I'm feeling so confused.

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# 44080 - by Anonymous / April 12, 2019
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 12, 2019 at 11:06 AM

What did you expect to happen in the long run ?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 12, 2019 at 11:21 AM

He wants you to have a "normal" life. You know, husband, house in the suburbs, kids. Right now he's feeling guilty about holding you back. All parents expect their children to make lives of their own. He's likely in his forties by now and thinking you need a life partner closer to your own age that isn't going to be collecting social security checks while you're in your prime.

Unless you can honestly tell him all those things (particularly the kids) don't matter to you, he'll keep pushing.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 12, 2019 at 12:51 PM

I love him so much it hurts. I don't want other men. I do everything for him. I seriously even sexually service him in the morning so he can have a good day at work. If I ever want kids I want him to be the father.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 12, 2019 at 4:05 PM

Two questions:

What kind of work does he do? Is it something public where a whispering rumour about how close the two of you are could hurt his standing or get him fired?

Second, if you don't mind, what were the circumstances of the seduction? Is your dad widowed or divorced? Are you adopted? What put the notion in your head of approaching him sexually at 13?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 13, 2019 at 7:31 AM

My mother passed away when I was 7. My dad raised me all by himself. He owns his own business as an electrician . He would always be telling me how much I looked like her. My friends would and do say how hot he is. Then one day I realized that they were right and I also realized how lonely he must have been.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 13, 2019 at 10:10 AM

I have a question , how are you able to tell friends and family that you aren't dating anyone.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 13, 2019 at 10:22 AM

Have you directly told him how you feel? Particularly the bit about children? If you did discuss children, was it before or after he said you should be hunting for someone closer to your own age? If it was before, he may be thinking your biological clock is starting to tick and he's concerned about the increased chance of birth defects when close relatives breed.

The two best things I can counsel are honesty and calm. I know it's a highly emotional issue for you, but you need to lay out your feelings and opinion on the matter as rationally as possible. Emphasize that you're already six years in and you don't feel a compulsion to change. Then ask "why". Go a few levels deep to try to find the root of his reason. Start with why he wants you to find someone your own age. See where he goes with it. He may have concrete concerns you don't know about.

For example, has he had a vasectomy? If you know for sure he hasn't, that's one thing. But what if he has or has some garden variety fertility problem you don't know about? He could be harboring fears about not being able to give you the child he thinks you want.

The solution to the lion's share of relationship problems is open, honest communication. If you've already tried talking and not shifted his position, tell us what he said. This collection of horndogs and pervs have used [or written] ninety percent of crap men say to get out of relationships. Maybe someone will have some insight.

If you haven't had the talk, do it, but remember to be calm - don't accuse or blame, try to discover his reasons for thinking this way.

Good Luck

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 13, 2019 at 11:45 AM

He has said that he doesn't want me to waist my life on him. That he is too old for me and eventually he won't have the energy to keep up. He also is concerned that I'm throwing my life away for him. I find all that to be bs , I lay in the bed together every night. He obviously has no problem having sex. I'm not attracted to others. I only want him and know we can make it work. I have told everyone that I'm not dating others because of my religious beliefs and I have lied and said that I have dated others.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 13, 2019 at 5:29 PM

So you slept with your dad at 13. He is a sick fuck. He and you are not normal.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 13, 2019 at 5:51 PM

Well I suppose everyone has their own opinions. I love him more than you could ever know.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 13, 2019 at 11:22 PM

He's letting you know that you are getting older and will meet more and different people.
He expects as is normal that you may find someone else and he's not going to stand in your way.
He's just making a way for you to see it will OK if find someone else. The

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 14, 2019 at 5:07 PM

You lost your mom at the age of seven, then at the age of thirteen you seduced your father.

First. I'm in a sexual relationship with my father, so I know what is the differences of this special relationship. However, there really isn't any differences and it isn't that special comparing to "normal" relationships.

To be honest, you sound like you could get help from some therapy. Do not take this as a bad thing.

You have lost your own mother. I assume in the storm of puberty, you have somehow got scared that you will lose your father too. That is why you are acting more like his wife, rather than overly sexualized partner.

While you should had been a child, you have compensated the loss by being something you aren't to your father. You have tried to mold your father so he wouldn't feel sad and helpless.

OF course, now you are an adult and you have "explanations" and you have rationalized everything and you are much more accustomed to have sex with him, but your explanations sound more like you are clinging to your own dad, rather than exploring the world like you should (And I mean also the sex with him - as an exploration of your own sexuality).

You literally say, you seduced him and you have been everything a man needs....

Wow. Just wow!

Over the years when I have discussed with other i****tuous couples, you are one of a kind. Usually I have heard stories where i****tuous couples do not date or doesn't want to get in love, because they do not believe they could live together for the rest of theri lives. They are usually giving several reasons like the public pressure (the fear of getting caught) and the youth. And by the youth I mean that they know they want to experience the world and the sex is only experimenting. That is not clinging to each other to compensate something.

Your reason is that you have been tried to be something! Usually people give reasons like they wanted to experiment. Only later in years they talk about love.

Adult i****tuous couples usually have experienced with other people and they have much more equal and peaceful relationship with their family member.

What I hear from you, is fear. You are afraid everything is lost and crumbled if you experience some life. Fear makes you not seeing that everything has options and different possibilities.

For example, what happens if you get a boyfriend. Nothing, because you will love your boyfriend, but it will not diminish the love for your father. I know, I know, you will say how you can't love someone just by telling. But that is not the point. I mean if you meet someone and you fell in love, you haven't lost anything. You have gained something more! You can always get back to your father. You can even have sex with each other while you are dating or even married if you two want to.

You have lost your mother, not your father. If you cling only to him, by the time he is getting older and can't keep up with you, you will lose your life. Do not try to live his life by sacrifing yourself to him. No relationship works like that. Relationship can only flourish if you both respect each other and communicate.

I'm not saying you should stop having sex with him, stop loving him or leave him. I'm only saying that you need to see the possibilities in life. You must live your own life, not trying to live your mothers live! You are not your mother. You are 19 years old girl who never had childhood.

I suggest that you get few hours of therapy just to talk with someone outsider. You don't need to talk about the sex with your father and it doesn't mean that you are somehow crazy, but it could help you if you talk about your mom. Then about your father and how you are feeling when he is asking you to try your own wings.

I wish you well. Just remember that no matter what happens, the i****t doesn't need to end, you don't need to lose anything you already have. He is not telling you that. He is only telling you to live your own life, not his, and not your mothers.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 15, 2019 at 7:19 AM

Even if I agreed with you about therapy , it would be so risky and it could end up being a horrible situation. We both have discussed the fact that if anyone ever found out what goes on in our life. My dad would end up in jail. We both know that it's both immoral and against the law. We had a very cosy day yesterday after church. We sat around talking and watching TV. I know he's worried about everything I know he only wants the best for me. Maybe your right maybe I am afraid of loosing him too. I don't think I could be with someone else after being with him. Even casually dating would be like I'm cheating. I really appreciated your comments thank you very much.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 15, 2019 at 8:17 AM

Given your feeling that dating others would be "cheating" on your dad, and therapy would be dangerous, you've closed off most of the options #12 has laid out. I guess you could go to therapy and lie about the relationship in terms of who he is in relation to you and what age you were when it started, but liars need long memories and it would be a difficult façade to maintain.

It's not something I would recommend, but getting pregnant by your dad is probably the only way to lock him down tight for the long haul. Of course that involves even more lying that therapy. First you'd have to lie to your dad about having maintained your birth control and then further lies to your friends about the identity of the father. [Which could be a formidable task with your history of telling stories about why you don't date. The girl who doesn't go out is suddenly pregnant by a one night stand? There will be questions and speculation.]

Good luck.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 15, 2019 at 8:44 AM

Well I'm not trying to get pregnant and I really hate lieing. I have mentioned to my dad that if we sell the house and move. We can live on somewhere else where no one knows us. We can pretend to be husband and wife and just simply tell people that we're married not father and daughter. I have even looked into living in Mexico, Belize and other countries.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 15, 2019 at 9:04 AM

The biggest issue there would be how transferable your dad's skill set is and how long it would take to establish himself as a new business. For that reason alone, it may make staying in the states your best option. There's a lot of country and a bunch of English speakers to get lost among if you stay in the US. There's also no obvious paper trail through immigration at your destination. Your best pick is probably some medium to large town with a university you can use as an excuse for moving, if giving those you leave behind a "reason" is a factor.

Are there any other relatives you need to leave behind or dodge? Aunts & Uncles? Cousins? Grandparents on either side? While it won't be an absolute necessity to cut these people out of your life forever, you do need to pick a spot far enough away to make surprise visits where they may inadvertently reveal your true relationship to others unlikely.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 15, 2019 at 11:33 AM

Yes I have grandparents from both, they rarely visit now. My uncle visits once or twice a month and has nearly caught us. So we are very cautious now. I was thinking that if we sold the house and his business we could live in another country for a very long time if not forever. I guess we could move to another state but I think American s would be more suspicious of a teenage girl and a man in his mid 40s would be together. When we go on vacation we noticed that theres alot of men with much younger women.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 15, 2019 at 12:12 PM

Rightly or wrongly, a lot of those young women are assumed to be gold diggers or prostitutes. So if you're set on going overseas with this, make sure you have wedding rings on when you get there to ward off the lecherous middle aged tax expats who might think they can rent you with a better offer.

Are you going to let your relatives (particularly the uncle) know where you're going? Do you have a cover story for them? It's going to be easier to say you're moving to Texas or Florida for the weather and low taxes than to tell them you're emigrating to Costa Rica to retire at 45 and taking the teenage daughter along for the adventure.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 15, 2019 at 12:29 PM

Well it's just something my dad and I have talked about. It's not a for sure thing. I would think that there will be a lot of things to go over before we ever did it. Assuming he will do it.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 15, 2019 at 4:37 PM

Sorry but I find this sexy as hell and love to hear more about the sex and dirtier things. I think your dad is a lucky bastard and wish it was me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 17, 2019 at 8:55 AM

We are just like any other couple that I have heard of. We have sex nearly every night and or morning. I'm always trying to look sexier and sexier for him. He's my man.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 18, 2019 at 10:51 AM

What was the original seduction like? You claim to have seduced him, how did you start? Strip naked and climb in bed with him while he was wide awake. Sneak into his bed in the middle of the night, fondle and suck his cock? How does a thirteen year old successfully start the ball rolling? Did he put up much resistance? Or did you overwhelm him to the point that the little head was doing his thinking?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 18, 2019 at 8:57 PM

Have you talked about having a family and children with him? What does he feel about it?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 21, 2019 at 8:34 PM

After sending this confession and reading some of the comments, have you talked about it with your dad and how you feel about all of this. What have he said about his viewpoint and reasons to encourage you to date others?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 22, 2019 at 6:42 AM

I'm sorry I lost my confession here , I wasn't able to find it. If any one is still here please please resend any of your questions I will try to be better about answering them.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 23, 2019 at 11:42 PM

You should ask your dad as you ride him, if you came home with another guy's (your age), cum in your pussy, what would he do? Would he get mad, or as your ridihg him harder now, would it turn him on? And wha woukd he do? Fuck you? Spank you? Eat your pussy? Hope that is turning you on thinking about riding him right now and asking him.? Mmmm

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