Be honest here guys and please don't be mean. I have been through hell and back and the ride has not been pleasant. Would you date and or marry a woman who has pain during sex? This woman would please you in any other way you want, but just could not have intercourse on a weekly basis. Maybe every other week. This happens to me and I am afraid to date b/c I fear that men will reject me b/c of this. To boot, I am a very hot woman. I get hit on constantly and am a really funny and kind person. Any thoughts? Does men prefer a blow job over intercourse? Especially if that woman loves to do it and is awesome at it? Be honest, but if your looking to be mean then don't even respond! BTW, anal is out so don't even suggest that! :)Thank you for your gentle honesty.

Sussie

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 19, 2008 at 12:04 PM

you need to find a gynecologist to check you out. Could be a yeast infection, urinary tract infection, or???
Or, are you too dry, and need lubricant? Talk with your doctor.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 19, 2008 at 4:37 PM

I prefer blowjobs. I don't care for intercourse. Just a nice wet blowjob.

By the way I hate the word awesome.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 19, 2008 at 5:13 PM

I have been to many docs that have given me a diagnosis that is not treatable! I was misdiagnosed by a doctor and she applied medication that injured me down there! After many unsuccessful surgeries, I am still the same after 10 years!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 19, 2008 at 6:57 PM

Not to sound mean, but I think you're full of shit.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 19, 2008 at 11:35 PM

Actually, I consider mutual masturbation with my wife to be just as exciting and sensational as intercourse, and I'm sure I'm not the only guy who thinks that. Just something you might consider.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 24, 2008 at 8:37 PM

I swear to God..... My doctor applied TCA (tricloracetic acid) on my external area to treat what she thought was HPV or genital warts. It turns out that it wasn't warts but my glands that excrete lubrication for sex was swollen fron being irritated and she applied this acid to treat me for this.This doctor was rushed and new to the profession at the time. Then she gave me at the time a new medication called "Condylox" which was a self applied medication that the patient puts on themselves. Since I was only 19 yrs old and misinformed, and misdiagnosed, I applied this to my normal vulvar tissue resulting in a chemical burn from the two meds combined. Everytime I have sex, it really hurts and burns. Like living in the pits of hell. This is a true story. God be my witness! I appreciate the gentle nature of you good hearted men who were kind enough to respond without being mean. I really appreciated this more than you know. I feel ashamed and depressed over this and felt comfortable asking you gentlemen b/c it is anonymous. I am not lying here. I look no different down there so you guys are telling me that you would date and good hearted, very attractive woman who would please you in other ways besides having intercourse all the time? I fear that I will be rejected. Again, please have a heart and be gentle with responses. My heart aches over what could have been if this doctor didn;t "f" me up so bad. I have forgiven her though. I must! The burden of hate is too heavy. God bless to all you sweet men out there! It makes me feel good to know that decent men still exist!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 9, 2008 at 7:36 PM

Have you tried anal? If your man craved penetration then this would be one way to go and I'm sure you could satisfy him with mutual masturbation or oral the rest of the time.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 12, 2009 at 12:22 AM

Absoloutly! Sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship. Personality is important. There is this girl that I am in crazy love with, I mean she is everything to me and honestly, if the only way I could be with her was to agree that we would never have sex, I wouldn't think twice about because having her in my life is more important than having sex in my life.

So go for it. I thought it was kinda cute when you said it pains you (no offense)

And as far as intercourse or the bj.....I would do whatever she wanted. Some girls like giving, soMe like getting.

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by Anonymous on May 8, 2009 at 2:33 PM

I had a girlfriend who just couldn't take my penis (there are drawbacks to being hung like a horse, but that's another story) I would just use her cleavage or her butt crack to get off; I would please her with oral and my fingers.

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