Twelve years ago, my ex-wife and I split up. I did not marry again, though I did have two long relationships in those 12 years. One of those relationships lasted 7 years. I am financially stable.

Yesterday, out of the blue, the ex-wife calls me. She wants to get back together. I really don't know what to do. I never really stopped loving her, have often thought about her. I like living by myself but I do miss waking up beside someone every morning.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 22, 2009 at 3:02 PM

Consider the reasons why you broke up, then ask yourself if it's worth starting things up again.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 23, 2009 at 9:17 AM

yeah also the fact that you're happy on your own and comfortable with yourself is a really good thing, can you say the same for her?

sound's like you're in a good place to start a new relationship, but will going back with her be a new relationship? obviously ask yourself if you still feel that spark for her.

If you do decide to get back togther it would have to be a completely new start, no bitterness about the past, which might be hard... how serious were your reasons for breaking up? do you forgive each other for giving up on the marriage in the first place? how much has changed?

just take it slow, build the relationship on new grounds.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 24, 2009 at 11:22 PM

Invite her over, fuck her ass and then tell her to get out.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 26, 2009 at 7:52 PM

Here's what I say.
Invite her over.
Let her see how you live now.
Tell her about the 2 long relationships you've had since you broke up with her.
Then see how she takes it.
If she's serious and willing to adapt, then, while she may be sad that you had others, she'll not make a deal about it.
Even if she's cool with that, let her see that you don't really need her and, if she's just looking to run someone's life, then she'll leave you alone.
It's worth a try with her.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 24, 2009 at 3:47 PM

get her STD checked before you do anything. More than likely she fucked just about everyone while she was gone and it back to you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 26, 2009 at 3:05 PM

Remember why you divorced. Is she calling cause she broke off a relationship w/ some guy and needs sympathy? Have the two of you maintained a platonic relationship since the split? If my ex called me, I'd tell her to get lost. Don't reminice about old memories. You got divorced for a reason.

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