anonomous
probably really horney after 21 yrs with not real sex. maybe try like many to; get a bunch of drinks before you go back to his or her place.
I would classify it more a s just plain "frigid".
a Nun without the dressing.
I think your just curious and bored.I understand where you are coming from as I have made it past that age being a virgin. I'm a girl too. Don't classify yourself as being anything because you can really confuse yourself. Sometimes you can confuse your curiousity as a sign of somethings but its just really idle time that you really need to find something else to think about besides sex. Its not that important to let it rule your life. When you want to have kids one day or get married, then it will be important. And don't be so curious, sometimes it can get you into somethings you might not be able to get out of easily. And its nice to know that at least there is another girl out there who make up the few that make it past 20 years and still a virgin. And also, its not bad to socialize with people, but just be careful with who you associate with, sometimes they are a reflection to others of how you are. When you try to socialize with others, make sure that you are not a follower, make your own decisions, if you are not comfortable with something, say it, and don't follow it. You are the one who has to look back on your life and at the decisions you have made and the decisions others have made for you and decide if those decisions were really worth it. And if you think that you are still in need of an answer , just pray about it. Don't accept any answer unless you know that it follows with your moral code.
Bisexual
Today's society always has an answer or word to describe someone. Anyone can always try to get away with things or even murder by suggesting they are bipolar or something. There is always one word to describe everything that you are feeling? Today's society is always looking for a quick answer and reason for everything. When you live long enough, you'll find no such thing.