Just Curious

Is anyone else married, but you just feel so...... alone?
It seems like he never pays attention to me, never wants to have sex, never wants to touch me even non sexually, never talks to me, he's in his phone 24-7 reading fanfics.... i don't know. I love him. And I cant leave, for financial and other reasons. But I just wish I had someone to talk to. Someone to make me feel.... wanted sometimes. I don't exactly mean sexually, but at 25, that would be nice. Does that make me a bad person?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 30, 2020 at 2:21 PM

Hey there! I hear ya and can relate. Married male here, 44yo but in a similar situation. Everything you say - sexless marriage, well we get together once every other month. I miss the physical connection both in a sexual and non-sexual manner. I used to think it was due to my physical appearance as I had gained weight and lost my body, but no... that is not it. I have regained my athletic bod. She just does not want that attention anymore. She simply enjoys FB and IG too much! I am not sure how to work on improving this but, am optimistic that I can get the physical attention that I crave. I hope you can get the same.

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Nishad

by Nishad on Mar 28, 2021 at 7:53 AM

This happens when the love does not exist in relation. so forget about be his wife but just talk to him like a friend and ask him to share his heart and know the reasons. reasons can be disturbing but be strong and be a friend with him and say that and make him feel comfortable to share his heart . After hearing him accept him and then see how you can be more than friend or at least fulfill your needs.

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